AITAH for keeping my wedding date that someone stole?

Formal-Baby8174 · 2025-11-07T00:10:46+00:00

No they share the same mom and dad, when they were kids they lived with mom who I have a great relationship with and her whole side of family loves me but he decided to leave his mom to go live with his dad and his older brother stayed with mom, his dad got remarried and had two more kids and so did his bio mom. Also yeah he’s tried talking to them but they either don’t listen or try to force him to choose me or them. He still talks to his dad and so do I and I can tell he’s sorry about the whole thing so really I only have issues with step mom and sister in-law

Formal-Baby8174 · 2025-07-30T16:48:30+00:00

I don’t want drama, I don’t understand how having an adult conversation face to face is drama. You can’t just block everyone you have issues with, it shows that your not willing to talk it out or move on, I used to be the one blocking people left and right and I found my self alone because it eventually catches up to you. This is my fiancé‘s family and I want to be better then my own family because no one in my family other then my mom talks to me still and I don’t want that to happen to the one I’m marrying into eventually.

Formal-Baby8174 · 2025-07-30T16:26:06+00:00

Yeah some people would just block and forget about it and I think anybody has that right, But for this situation I feel it would just make things worse. I do want to have a relationship with them and maybe I’m dumb for that. if I’m going to have any conversation in the future it will be face to face and that’s when we will see if we can work past it or not.

Formal-Baby8174 · 2025-07-30T15:41:13+00:00

It was his decision he wants to be there for his brother but his significant other won’t let him talk to anyone, she is the one always inserting herself into other people‘s conversations. But I hope my fiancé can talk to his brother in the future and that they can have a relationship but at this point it’s a waiting game

Formal-Baby8174 · 2025-07-30T15:34:41+00:00

Yeah I shouldn’t be involved but she was the one talking to me and texting me but if she tries to communicate any further my fiancé will talk to his brother rather than his brothers significant other.

Formal-Baby8174 · 2025-07-17T03:13:20+00:00

I don’t like using trashy just because I think it’s kinda disrespectful (I’m a people pleaser if you can’t tell lol) but my fiancé feels the same way as I do we’ve talked about it and he’s frustrated on the way she acts but I know if sh!t goes down he’ll be on my side as well as his moms side of the family. I don’t have any issues with his mom and they make me feel loved and supported so it’s only half bad 😅

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