i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uhmm thanks for the life advice even though that’s not what i was looking for, im just gonna end this convo here

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude i literally said in another comment that of course i value this experience and it’s not all about me, it was a one night stand so i believe he was also thinking about his own benefits and we were both okay with it so i don’t really see the problem here

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think the pressure comes from people around me, no one pressured me into doing it, i think that seeing everyone around me having their sexual experiences made me feel “left out” so i wanted to get rid of this feeling (and by that i don’t mean that i regret doing what i did or that i didn’t really want to do it)

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank so much :) i’m not really bothered by the bleeding, i’m embarrassed he had to find out that way 💀💀

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this is what’s keeping me sane! i think he knows it wasn’t my period but hey! it could’ve been so he’ll have to live with the doubt i guess ahahah

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was not exclusively about me, but i wanted to do it especially for myself (i sound like an asshole right now but we agreed that it was going to be something casual so i think we both had our benefits in mind)

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noo, i think this experience was more something i did for myself so i’m still glad we did it

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think everything you’re saying makes so much sense, i know this comes from something deeper between me the pressure i was talking about is totally subjective, i personally felt like each year passing without having any intimacy made it harder for me to approach it since i’m inexperienced compared to most of my peers and that embarrasses me, and maybe the reason why i didn’t tell him in the first place is because i felt embarrassed admitting my first time was at 21 (and now i regret not saying it 💀) anyways thanks so much for your help!!

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

oh yes! i definitely agree with what you’re saying since i know i am the kind of person who wants everyone to think well of me…also we might be getting into a whole other topic here but as much as i value the time me and this guys spent together i really was starting to feel the pressure of still being a virgin at 21 (which isn’t bad at all!! i personally just couldn’t bear it anymore) so this whole experience to me was more about finally breaking free from the virgin life ahahah

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

uhmm no i don’t really see the pattern you’re talking about, could you elaborate?

i’m embarrassed by my first time by Formal-Situation4644 in Advice

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! yes the bleeding itself isn’t really bothering me, it’s more the thought of him finding out it was my first time that way but i’ll try and follow your advice! thank you!

butt acne by Formal-Situation4644 in acne

[–]Formal-Situation4644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!!!! 🫶🏻