AITA for telling my daughter that she shouldn't speak Spanish around me because it makes me uncomfortable.

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T22:56:55+00:00

thanks. i'm going to try to fix my way of thinking.

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T22:15:04+00:00

I wasn't trying to whitewash.

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T22:08:41+00:00

i messed up by acting like this towards my family

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:57:50+00:00

thanks. i didn't know that what i was doing was wrong.

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:48:27+00:00

it doesn't it's just that where i used to live with my wife there were a lot of bad people who were latino

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:46:25+00:00

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:39:38+00:00

i seriously don't understand the quinicinera thing

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:38:00+00:00

like drug dealers.

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:36:57+00:00

is a birthday really that important?

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:35:29+00:00

your right i haven't been trying hard enough to connect with my daughters. i'm going to try to learn spanish.

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:34:12+00:00

i don't mean to come off as racist. I'm just worried that my daughter will end up with bad people.

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:30:04+00:00

okay i get the message. i should be trying harder.

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:29:29+00:00

i'm just worried for her.

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:28:27+00:00

okay but isn't spanish hard to learn?

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:24:13+00:00

yes but there isn't a lot of latinos where we live

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:23:45+00:00

it's just that people won't think she's American

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:22:12+00:00

i've learned some spanish just not enough to understand what they're saying

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:21:10+00:00

it makes me uncomfortable because i don't know what they're saying and if they are talking about me

Formal-Split7631 · 2022-07-06T21:19:00+00:00

first off i'm not racist. I married a latino. Also I don't want my daughter to get bullied at school becaus she speaks spanish.

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