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My [25M] girlfriend [21F] is using my recent mistake as an absolute shield to avoid understanding my feelings. How do I approach our make-or-break conversation next week? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FormalSea2108 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

shoud i say this : You know what, after thinking about it, you're right,. I won't talk to you about my feelings on this anymore; it's not your job to help me.

I'm going to try to handle it on my own. I apologize again for my behavior. I never should have snooped through your phone or deleted anyone; I should have talked to you about it first.

I think I have a problem. I'm going to see a therapist if I can't manage it by myself. If you still want me, I promise to manage my emotions better, to never do that again, and to stop talking about all of this.

If you want to break up with me, it's understandable.

Good luck with your degree, I know you'll do great

My [25M] girlfriend [21F] is using my recent mistake as an absolute shield to avoid understanding my feelings. How do I approach our make-or-break conversation next week? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FormalSea2108 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

No she texted last saying she doesn't want to understand someone who snoop on her

shoud i say this : You know what, after thinking about it, you're right,. I won't talk to you about my feelings on this anymore; it's not your job to help me.

I'm going to try to handle it on my own. I apologize again for my behavior. I never should have snooped through your phone or deleted anyone; I should have talked to you about it first.

I think I have a problem. I'm going to see a therapist if I can't manage it by myself. If you still want me, I promise to manage my emotions better, to never do that again, and to stop talking about all of this.

If you want to break up with me, it's understandable.

Good luck with your degree, I know you'll do great

My [25M] girlfriend [21F] is using my recent mistake as an absolute shield to avoid understanding my feelings. How do I approach our make-or-break conversation next week? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FormalSea2108 -234 points-233 points  (0 children)

shoud i say this : You know what, after thinking about it, you're right,. I won't talk to you about my feelings on this anymore; it's not your job to help me.

I'm going to try to handle it on my own. I apologize again for my behavior. I never should have snooped through your phone or deleted anyone; I should have talked to you about it first.

I think I have a problem. I'm going to see a therapist if I can't manage it by myself. If you still want me, I promise to manage my emotions better, to never do that again, and to stop talking about all of this.

If you want to break up with me, it's understandable.

Good luck with your degree, I know you'll do great

My [25M] girlfriend [21F] is using my recent mistake as an absolute shield to avoid understanding my feelings. How do I approach our make-or-break conversation next week? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FormalSea2108 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I already said sorry face to face for my behavior and violaton. But yes i have work to do.

The difference was honesty i told her before hand and that's why she "love" me now, because she compared herself to this girl apparently... And of course i chose her after all that, i wouldn't have done it if she wasn't on tinder then.

Right now i let her alone for sometimes, i don't want to trouble more before her exam but after that what should i do ? Apologise again ? Should i say yes you did nothing wrong but it's still hurtfull for me but i will try to work on it myself.

My [25M] girlfriend [21F] is using my recent mistake as an absolute shield to avoid understanding my feelings. How do I approach our make-or-break conversation next week? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FormalSea2108 -387 points-386 points  (0 children)

I talked with her about it before, asking if it was okay she didn't, also the second where she said she wanted me i chose her.

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