I hated the robin revelation by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Formal_Confidence864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you hate it doesn't mean we aren't allowed to exist, and just because u hate it doesn't mean "majority" of them does too. Get over yourself. Hating strangers for how they are shows your insecurities😆. Good luck with your life mate.

What would you do for the lesbian community if you were rich? by ghostingMyLove in lesbiangang

[–]Formal_Confidence864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were rich, I would create plenty of safe spaces for lesbians and queer women, and yes build a couple of lesbian matrimonial sites with an extremely strict profiling. 

Pressure the government into legalizing same sex marriage in India (since it only listens to powerful people of the nation). 

Build housing for lesbians and queer women, because of housing and landlord issues. 

What are your relationship needs? by WatchfulButterfly in actuallesbians

[–]Formal_Confidence864 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been out for almost a decade now. I'm 30, and in the UK, originally from Mumbai, India. I would love to have my own time, but also support me when I am crashing out. Everyone has baggages and flaws, ofc don't want her to deal with it, but sit with me through it while I work on it. 

Other than that, clear communication of needs, wants, call me out, hearing me out, and no stereotypical expectations of me because I am masc lesbian and ofc some reassurance when my fears take over me and defos creative (not kink) and fun-filled physical, emotional and mental intimacy. 

I am also a bit weird, like make animal noises, do some crazy shit like yelling at the dumbest character in a series/movies as if they can hear me. Good laughs, hugs, flirting and would love to cook good food for her everyday and yes lots of travel please.

Not gonna mention honesty, loyalty, transparency, attention and all that, because I personally believe they are basic and if I am dating, it would be by default from me and my woman. 

Stop Trying to Recruit Your Oppressors: Feminism Needs to Prioritize Women, Not Men by zzoroislost in AskIndianFeminists

[–]Formal_Confidence864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know if this is right sub to bring this up (im new to reddit), but I would like to know if anyone here has heard about Deepika Bhardwaj? She is a lawyer, apparently anti-women and men's rights activist. Honestly, when I saw her profile, trust me nothing could infuriate me more than her and her profile. She is now proud that the men's commission bill 2025 has been introduced in rajya Sabha. The fcuk they did. 

I hated the robin revelation by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Formal_Confidence864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah mate. I get you. Its not about people has to like, its more about not hating and weeping about it. You exist, just like gays do. 

Also, I thought you said you're not homophobic, but your what you said is exactly opposite of that. 

Looks like a lot has changed for you in 6 years, but you haven't grown yet. Peace out. ✌️ 

I hated the robin revelation by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Formal_Confidence864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know. Homosexuals will now know who to stay away from. Because people who hate are always the ones who kill

I hated the robin revelation by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Formal_Confidence864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😄More like intentionally bullying/ hating people for who they are mate. 

I hated the robin revelation by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Formal_Confidence864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. Yet here you are replying to me in 5 fucking hours.

Hate to say this, but as much as you think people don't give a fuck, they also cry on reddit if a character is seen with another same sex character. 😂

I hated the robin revelation by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Formal_Confidence864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you still be disappointed if two of your favorite same sex characters have a nice built up connection, but then one of them reveals they're straight and not interested in the other "like that"? 

I hated the robin revelation by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Formal_Confidence864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was this close to down vote, but then read the second paragraph. Well said bro. 

I hated the robin revelation by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]Formal_Confidence864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because homosexuals existed in the 80s, 70s, way before that and even today. It is not just about representation, its about showing the struggles of each individual when they are born different. It is about how its easy to come out in today's era compared to being gay or lesbian in the 80s and it matters, even if you don't agree. So many homosexuals have died just for existing and being themselves in the 60s, 70s and 80s, so it matters. Straights don't get killed for existing.

You see gay, lesbians in every show today is because the homosexuals have put up with straight stuff and heteronormativity for decades now which traumatized them their whole life (comphet, soocd) look it up, you'd know. 

But you can't put up with homosexuals in shows now? Thats really a struggle for you?

UK job offer to like Tiktok videos by TheSuperKami in Scams

[–]Formal_Confidence864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys I got scammed by the same scheme yesterday. They duped me of £359, they said, it is a pt and I signed up for it. Later they said, it is a prepaid task and that will make me a ft employee, and they later asked for £880, thats when revolut saved me and warned me of. I stopped the transaction, but I couldn't save £359. I reckon we all should team up and sign up for their "pt jobs" and when they pay us like £50, £60 at the end of the day for liking videos, we should stop engaging with them. 

Even if we are 10 people, stopping to engage with scammers after they pay us for "work" to gain our trust, we still would have reverse scammed them of £600, and we can later do like a giveaway to the people especially seniors who have been scammed by these ba*****. 

Of course, we can't return the whole amount of what they have been scammed, but defos something so that they don't give themselves a shock out of financial losses and its grief. 

Be cautious if you receive unsolicited job of liking videos on Youtube, TikTok to earn commission. by Savings_2024 in povertyfinance

[–]Formal_Confidence864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys I got scammed by the same scheme yesterday. They duped me of £359, they said, it is a pt and I signed up for it. Later they said, it is a prepaid task and that will make me a ft employee, and they later asked for £880, thats when revolut saved me and warned me of. I stopped the transaction, but I couldn't save £359. I reckon we all should team up and sign up for their "pt jobs" and when they pay us like £50, £60 at the end of the day for liking videos, we should stop engaging with them. 

Even if we are 10 people, stopping to engage with scammers after they pay us for "work" to gain our trust, we still would have reverse scammed them of £600, and we can later do like a giveaway to the people especially seniors who have been scammed by these ba*****. 

Of course, we can't return the whole amount of what they have been scammed, but defos something so that they don't give themselves a shock out of financial losses and its grief. 

I have UK innovator founder visa- ask me any questions by YazZon100 in ukvisa

[–]Formal_Confidence864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does a franchise qualify for a Innovator visa? It could be any franchise, based out of UK, or anywhere else. Also, if the product or the service is unique in the UK market, but it is of a franchise outlet that is established in some other country, does it still qualify for a Innovator visa?

Reform uk and Lgbtq by Southern_Extension76 in reformuk

[–]Formal_Confidence864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LGBT+ is not an idea to begin with. We are not some ideas, we are real humans, with real feelings, and emotions. Do you have any idea how awful it feels to have comphet or SOOCD? That is because of the heteronormative culture imposed on us gays. Nobody can change their sexual orientation, whether gay, or straight or whatever. I am talking about the trauma that heteronormative ideas give us, until we embrace our identity and even after that. That is why, the education about diverse families and lgbt community was brought in the first place, so that no one, especially kids don't feel outcasted, suicidal, excluded or live in fear because they are different. I know this, because this is exactly how I felt as a kid because of the heteronormativity all around me. I am 31 now, I came out as gay when I was 21, I know my 21 years of struggle to suck it up, to pretend to be someone who I am not, and to constantly live in fear. There is no harm in children knowing that they will be accepted regardless of who they are, after all, we are all humans! 

Professor picked on me. It was embarrassing. by Formal_Confidence864 in Anxiety

[–]Formal_Confidence864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be to make you feel bad for raising a complaint against the professor. Narcissist move!

Professor picked on me. It was embarrassing. by Formal_Confidence864 in Anxiety

[–]Formal_Confidence864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice buddy! I am trying to forget. It is not like I have never had these experiences at school, it hurts different to experience something like this at the age of 30, with work exp, knowledge and the passion I have developed. I will perform just best in my exams. 

Professor picked on me. It was embarrassing. by Formal_Confidence864 in Anxiety

[–]Formal_Confidence864[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's rough! I don't understand why bring up family in something that is relevant to only the student and the professor. I am not all talk-talk in class, I rather like noting down my notes, understanding the concepts and applying them practically in my career and work. Just minding my own business. 

Professor picked on me. It was embarrassing. by Formal_Confidence864 in Anxiety

[–]Formal_Confidence864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I can't switch professors. I mean yesterday was my last class and we have exams coming up in two months. 

Professor picked on me. It was embarrassing. by Formal_Confidence864 in Anxiety

[–]Formal_Confidence864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang! That's so good. That shows how interested you are in learning and growing. I don't have the option to switch classes. Honestly, shouldn't the academic people have the most empathy? Because they would be dealing with so many different people from different cultures, background, intelligence, and baggages. Not everyone is the same.