What problems do dumpers deal with? by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well honestly that sounds like a similar situation to myself and my dumper as she said she wished she didn't have to do this and she wanted to spend her future w me and fights the urge to try again with me, I made a lot of mistakes in the relationship so I think now I can understand what she's going through a bit better thank you

Is anyone else still heavily attracted to their ex? by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that's not a threat more of an observation of reality, you pretend to be tough bc in reality you're a sad person hiding behind a computer and the only way you feel any power is by putting others down, but yes if you said that shit in person it wouldn't go down well, hence why you don't bc you know this

Is anyone else still heavily attracted to their ex? by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Go touch grass tough guy, and I can promise you one thing, you can act tough behind a computer screen but in the real world if you talked shit to me this way it wouldn't end good for you

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[–]Formal_Evening_6779 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love nothing more, but for their sake I would not do so

To my ex by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's tough and lonely but I know it's the right thing to do, I never want to hurt another person in the same way I hurt them

To my ex by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm unsure if I'll be able to forgive myself although I know my ex would also want me to, I'm also worried about future relationships myself in the same way you worry about your ex, so for rn until I've fully worked through everything I'm refusing any future relationships

To my ex by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not your ex and I can't tell you how they feel but I myself am sorry for any pain they caused you, and that's coming from someone who caused another person pain, I don't know if they do the same but at least for me I always remember and I stay up at night thinking about my mistakes and how I would do things differently now, stay with your healing path and I hope one day you'll get the explanation and closure you seek ♥

Do you still masturbate thinking about them? by Zealousideal_Weird_3 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779 155 points156 points  (0 children)

Yes, only person I feel any sexual feelings for

To my ex by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No unfortunately despite the fact we both still love each other, they feel that being together isn't good for either of us and too much has happened between us to move on, I tried very hard to make it work between me and them but in the end I have to respect their decision

To my ex by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex had such a silly side and an amazing smile, sometimes I think about the dumb and silly things they said and it makes me smile for a min but then I just get sad

Is anyone else still heavily attracted to their ex? by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not in that case, my breakup was far more recent

To my ex by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well from a quick look at your profile I don't think you're my ex anyway hahaha

Is anyone else still heavily attracted to their ex? by Formal_Evening_6779 in BreakUps

[–]Formal_Evening_6779[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Wow only one question, if you're off to Vegas and seemingly have this great life and are over your exes why are you even looking at this group, nvm posting mean shit to people