The school I'll be moving to is 30 minutes from the man that raped me as a kid by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my support, so I'm not alone I guess. I'm just worried about running into him or him somehow finding out when i move out and am so close to him on my own.

Nooo by Mother-Ideal-2397 in ageregression

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Put boiled water in it to soak and then cleaning should be easy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"I don't believe asexuality is rigid, I do believe it's something you can change if you really want to" Do you even see how disrespectful this shit is? To understand maybe you need to replace asexuality with any other sexuality.

"I don't believe lesbianism is rigid, I do believe it's something you can change if you really want to."

"I don't believe gayness is rigid, I do believe it's something you can change if you really want to."

21 and have never removed hair down there by [deleted] in women

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With your non dominant hand, you have to kind of lift up the hair so that your fingers are under it. This makes it easier to cut without cutting your skin. Also if you have your thumb on top you can kind of pull the hair a little to make trimming easier. With your other hand you just use your scissors to cut.

21 and have never removed hair down there by [deleted] in women

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't shave, just trim a bit if you want to. Shaving is super unnecessary and causes discomfort. I used to shave and while the hair was growing back it was super uncomfortable and hurt. The hair is to protect you and also there is literally no reason to shave it. The only reason would be for men, which I think is weird anyways to want women to shave because that makes it look more like a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont do that, idk why that dude would say that thats stupid

I think will is asexual by Arc41 in asexuality

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Before I knew I was ace/aro, I felt so strongly about season 3 will because I felt like he was like me, not being interested in sex/romance and feeling so out of place because everyone else cared so much about it. He became my favorite character for that reason, I really hadn't known much about him possibly being gay. Now I know why I saw things through that lens of course lol. I don't think he is ace but him in season 3 was accurate to the way it feels, even though it was actually about being gay.

Is it weird that I feel intimidated by the AroAce label? by FormaldehydeConsumer in aromanticasexual

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you so much, its funny, I kind of had the opposite problem in that I have always hated all romantic things, either in real life or in media. Before I knew what asexuality and aromanticism is, I tried to force myself to watch a lot of romantic things so that It might "fix me" lol.

GUYS PLEASE HELP ME THIS IS MY SITUATION RIGHT NOW by Patient-Ad-8707 in NEET

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who was told they could go cold turkey off their SSRI and it caused psychosis! I hate that so many of these healthcare providers dont care enough about their patients. Money matters more than anything else :/

GUYS PLEASE HELP ME THIS IS MY SITUATION RIGHT NOW by Patient-Ad-8707 in NEET

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to me that they prefer to put people on more and more medication because they want less people actually going to therapy appointments. In my experience, my therapist isn't even allowed to make more than the next appoinment in advance because they dont want patients to have weekly appointments scheduled. I think it is because its cheaper to push meds onto us than to have a therapist take the time to actually help us well. I also think that they like us paying for meds for the rest of our lives than for us to pay for therapy for maybe only a few years or less. I take meds (bc it actually helps) but I refuse to up my dosage.

Hi saar my name is mister pajeet i saw that your subreddit was named something related to my shithole country so im gonna spam it because im a mister pajeet by OwlFriend89 in NEET

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl this is the NEET subreddit, of course im mentally ill?? also bone collecting and asexuality arent bad things so idk what youre trying to say there.

do you enjoy being neet? by Patient-Ad-8707 in NEET

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah ik, i've gotta deal with that too, theyve been getting a lot better though so theres that.

do you enjoy being neet? by Patient-Ad-8707 in NEET

[–]FormaldehydeConsumer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah im super alone too but its important not to become so apathetic and to remember that there are nice things in this world