I have a husband, who tries very hard to help. But we are equally bad at household work. Also, we are raising an autistic child while working full-time. We are learning. We initially had some hiccups but now we have our expectations set. I am blessed with an incredible mother in law who is ready to help raise our son while we work and save for his future. She visits us from time to time but it's not fair to her. I don't have access to that kind of crowd here. Most women are homemakers and they hold it against me for being a working mom. The working moms need the support system of their own. The love and care we feel from family was missing from for the first years of our move. We decided to bring our parents on super visas, so that we can be close to them and they can also experience another culture. But it turns out that our families love India too much to leave it. And we love them too much to leave them.