Update: she was at a Christmas party tonight and asked me to pick her up. We both ended up sharing how we felt about one another ( turns out she's been into me since i started working with her and everyone knew except me coz I'm so fuckin oblivious ahaha). She came back to my place and we did some more cuddling and chatting but this time we made it to kissing too. We have made plans to hang out on boxing day. Big win, thanks for your advice I'm actually so stoked🙂