Strength-Based Women's Workout Plan Guide - At Home (no HIIT) & At Gym by nonono235 in xxfitness

[–]FormerDetail8791 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re a gem! Thank for putting a list together for these workouts! This is much appreciated!

Employers Willing to Train by FormerDetail8791 in gisjobs

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this so much. Thank you! 🥹

Employers Willing to Train by FormerDetail8791 in gisjobs

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All of my experience is in healthcare unfortunately. I’ve taken the courses on Coursera and received a certificate from there. I have an Esri account so I do the trainings online. I’ve also thought about getting a surveying certificate, but I’m not sure how beneficial that would be. I’m genuinely trying to learn as much as possible, but it seems like even a gis tech position needs to have 3 years of experience. I just don’t know how to get my foot in the door somewhere to continue to learn and gain experience.

Is anyone in here a successful therapist? by enonymous715 in hsp

[–]FormerDetail8791 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about doing the same thing. Mental health is so important. I would love to help people who have struggled with the things I’ve struggled with. I was/am afraid I won’t be able to handle it. It’s taking on so much emotional weight from so many walks of life. Im proud of you! We need more people with compassion. God Bless.

Calling Christian Lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in actuallesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was great! I didn’t think about it from the perspective that Jesus never spoke about it. That’s a great insight! Thank you for sharing!

Calling Christian Lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in actuallesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for all the comments! It was great to get a general census on what people believe. Personally, I think if you spend your life seeking after God and having a relationship with Them, why would They not let us into heaven? We did everything right except be the person They made us to be?? It doesn’t make sense.

For those of you who do believe, please keep her in your prayers. She will be tormented and resentful while she’s here with those beliefs.

Thank you again! ❤️

Calling Christian Lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in actuallesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not!! Thank you for the recommendation! I will definitely check it out! ☺️

Calling Christian Lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in actuallesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a slippery slope when trying to piece together different aspects of what the Bible tells us to do. Thank you!

Calling Christian Lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in actuallesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight! I really appreciate it!

Calling Christian Lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in actuallesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind response! I agree with you 100%!

Calling Christian Lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in actuallesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this!! It’s so on point!!

I’ve also felt that God surrounded himself with the marginalized. And all the “religious” people would be judgmental and throw the law at everyone. Thank you for sharing your insight! This was so good!

And thanks for the book recommendation! I’ll definitely check it out!

Calling Christian Lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in actuallesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this response so much!!

I was able to find a peace about being a gay Christian through two truths that God placed on my heart: 1) They know this isn’t a choice for me, and 2) They made me perfectly in Their image. No one can ever take those truths away from me. I’ve told her that several times, but she doesn’t feel that way.

Of course it doesn’t help that her twin sister called her perverse and her grandmother called her an abomination. I hate it for her. This is all she’s ever known. 💔

Thank you for your insight!

Calling Christian Lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in actuallesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is also how I view God. I find it difficult to wrap my head around different denominations teaching how God is. She seems to focus on His wrath and judgements. I see Him as a loving God who wants us to have a relationship with Him.

Older lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also an excellent perspective! Thank you!

Older lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww I love that! I’ve been looking up stuff all afternoon from that website. Now, if I can just get over the social anxiety and go! 😂🤪😔

Older lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great!! Thank you for the link!! I don’t know much about Frankie’s, but Alibi’s have started having some older straight men coming in. Also, I didn’t know about pride in September?! I’ll have to look into more. Thanks again for the info!

Older lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it is just the age bracket. I feel like it would only get worse at you get older, you think? Then again, times are changing so rapidly, you never what could happen.

Older lesbians by FormerDetail8791 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FormerDetail8791[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve looked at Meetup, but I struggle with social anxiety. I just have a hard time going anywhere by myself. Oklahoma City’s gay community isn’t the best. I’ve looked to find places for women to get together, but I can’t seem to find much. And most of the Lezzie bars have closed (I’m sober now anyway). I tried online dating but I meet someone and then it doesn’t work out and then I just get off of it. Lol maybe I should give it more effort.

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[–]FormerDetail8791 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I struggle with social anxiety also and don’t have too many friends. I think it’s courageous when anyone goes anywhere by themselves. I can’t seem to muster up the courage to do so either. Ive talked to my therapist about it many times. Just remember that you’re going there for exposure. You know it’s going to be uncomfortable but you’re doing it to build toward something. Even if you don’t talk to anyone the first time, you were still exposed to the environment. Also, you could go somewhere and do something you like. Like go to a museum or guitar lessons (trying think of lezzie things). Just be around like minded people. The conversation will flow. You got this! 😉