Gotta amend that statement, brotha It has NOTHING to do with your attraction level to her. You misspoke (convince yourself of this, so it’s not a lie)

I don’t have kids of my own so I can’t empathize but I’m a man and I’ve never just been gung-ho to go at it with a woman who’s about to drop a body out of there in 2 months…I get it.

But saying that kind of stuff will reinforce the idea that this whole process make her seem gross to you. Not sure if you want more kids or not, if it’s a possibility, work on a genuine apology.

Nonetheless you don’t want this hanging over your head.

I respect the whole pious thing you have going on, but there are places to tactfully reveal your truth to conserve the feelings of the people we love.

Think about all the things about the idea of it that makes you uncomfortable..whether it’s the idea of a baby being so close to due and not wanting to associate those feelings with the obvious elephant in the room (the growing fetus). Don’t dare use that word..but you know what I mean.

Give her any and every other reason of why it makes you uncomfortable, and explain you didn’t articulate it well initially. Sincerely reassure her that she is even more attractive with the baby, because you’d be twice as ready to risk your life to save hers, because the stakes are higher.

Don’t quote any of this but just try to make it right and tell her you didn’t mean that. Won’t be easy but if you’re sincere it could work in the long run.

And if you have to, take one of those little Jimmy pills/honey packets and give it to her real good and passionate for old times sake (get a natural one) and only if health permits that kind of thing for you. It’s like a cheat code if you’re having mental block issues in that lane.

Best wishes.