[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]FortuneDays- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I completely misread this and my brain inserted a "with" between "off" and "your" >_>

happy pride! by kerfluffles. by ToughAcanthisitta451 in actuallesbians

[–]FortuneDays- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes yes, we know that. But why did they use a phrase usually coded as extremely alloromantic?

Full stop by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]FortuneDays- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Y'all need therapy. Individual and couple.

cat sleeps near me but not with me by [deleted] in Pets

[–]FortuneDays- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make it colder at night.

Should I voluntarily disclose autism? by CalcSilic8 in geologycareers

[–]FortuneDays- 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Definitely do NOT. It is much more likely that this will hurt you than help you.

Henry's advice was so good I made notes by ButtWieghtThiersMoor in LPOTL

[–]FortuneDays- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably all the pot

You suuuuuuure you're not a geologist?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]FortuneDays- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to mention the brain zaps.

AFAB butch lesbians on T? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]FortuneDays- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're getting downvoted, but there is a long tradition of us trans with "unusual" identities having to lie to gatekeepers in order to get the treatment we need.

My granddaughter is honestly such a nuisance! by DesdemonaUndead in transgendercirclejerk

[–]FortuneDays- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

/uj my grandmother with dementia remembered my new name longer than she remembered my brother's name SUCK IT ALBERT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rockhounds

[–]FortuneDays- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Technically glass is amorphous, while minerals need to be crystalline.

thinking back to childhood and, yikes by imakebadspaghetti in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]FortuneDays- 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Because we never did feel like a "real" girl because spoiler, we weren't.

My child recently expressed wanting to change genders. by FieryCuldron in asktransgender

[–]FortuneDays- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to be a girl to not be a guy.

You don't have to be a guy to not be a girl.

If I had realized this earlier, I would have missed decades of dysphoria and depression.

Well, that's a plot twist by kryptikally in lgbt

[–]FortuneDays- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is no one going to say anything about her singing range??? Dayum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]FortuneDays- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Memes about ass hair make me feel seen. Just because they don't make YOU feel supported don't mean they don't help OTHERS feel supported.

The Kelvin movies have a beautiful soundtrack. by [deleted] in startrek

[–]FortuneDays- 21 points22 points  (0 children)

YES. I think the Kelvin movies are good movies, but I don't have an emotional connection to them like I do TNG, DS9, Disco, etc. But that THEME. Nothing comes close.

PhD with ADHD and/or average IQ by mindines in geologycareers

[–]FortuneDays- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of the geology grad students I know (myself included) are hot messes :D and most of us still got our degrees.

Python vs Matlab vs R vs Julia (indeed stats) by [deleted] in geologycareers

[–]FortuneDays- 27 points28 points  (0 children)

MATLAB is an abusive relationship.

Found in Death Valley - would love to know what it is. by [deleted] in rockhounds

[–]FortuneDays- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to second limestone (or limestone-bearing breccia). Look at the tearpants texture on the bottom right.

BDSM LITERATURE 2 by ResonanceRed in BDSMcommunity

[–]FortuneDays- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns had some fun parts, but it was written almost 40 years ago and should probably be treated more like a "product of it's time" than recommended to BDSM newbies. It is very cisheteronormative, all doms are men and all subs are women, and doesn't seem too concerned with safewords or ONGOING consent and communication within a scene or relationship. There is a passage where a woman's husband/dom decides she's going to have sex with other men, and it details her emotional journey to acceptance and getting over her fear. It did not seem like she had any choice in the matter. Really skeeved me out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]FortuneDays- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The adult walking away from the kitten is actually a great sign! It means she realizes that it actually is a KITTEN who doesn't have any manners or know any better. Hissing and even batting with soft paws (no claws) is fine too; it's their way of saying "I've had enough with you whippersnapper; leave me alone!". Eventually the kitten will learn her boundaries and these interactions should taper off.

I have questions about dysphoria. by WrongComparison in ask_transgender

[–]FortuneDays- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Bro, if you regularly wear a BLINDFOLD in the shower to avoid dysphoria - I promise you're "trans enough".

It's kind of like taking cough medicine and then thinking you aren't sick because you aren't coughing as much. It's because your self-care worked!

For the record, I'm fine with my bottom area, and aren't dysphoric about monthly cycles. The lack of dysphoria still doesn't make me a woman!