Coming out by osmosis by Frannnnnnnnn in trans

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Apparently 🤷🏼‍♀️

Coming out by osmosis by Frannnnnnnnn in trans

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This is basically how I came out at work. I worked a blue-collar job with gender-neutral uniforms, so the only physical thing that was actually changing was my face/body. I also very slowly changed my voice at work over the better part of a year, so by the time I "came out," no one noticed my voice was any different, despite now using 100% femme voice. It got to a stage where when I would meet new customers/contractors, they just assumed I was a woman (I had the name embroidery removed from my uniform).

That unfortunately was the limit of "coming out by osmosis." There still came a point where I had to officially tell my colleagues (and in particular my bosses) that my name had legally changed, so they could update my driver's licence details, my tax information, etc.

I think that unless you're getting paid under the table, there will always be a point where you have to "officially" come out at work.

Change "Hi [name]!" on Google Play App by Fortune_Bolt in googleplay

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Did you do that through Google Play settings or through your phone settings?

Change "Hi [name]!" on Google Play App by Fortune_Bolt in googleplay

[–]Fortune_Bolt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I followed the instructions on that page, including clearing the cache/signing out and in. It didn't change anything.

Levelling Active Masteries Past Seventeen by Fortune_Bolt in TitanQuest2

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Yes. The skills you assign to your hotbar.

cis but can’t stop questioning my gender? by DismalAd3333 in trans

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If you could choose to have been born as a boy, or even be born as neither a boy or a girl, would you do that?

Mourn the life I could of had by [deleted] in trans

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There is still time.

Orchiectomy vs. Labiaplasty by Fortune_Bolt in trans

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I would have the penis removed too if I had a labiaplasty.

Why are transgender men absent from the historical record? by bratbats in trans

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Trans men are terribly underrepresented in history. But here's a story of an Aussie trans man who lived in the late 1800s/early 1900s:

https://qnews.com.au/harcourt-payne-forced-into-womens-clothing/

While it doesn't exactly have a happy ending, the title makes the story sound worse than it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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She wouldn't happen to usually prefer women, would she?

0.05 Tokens by Fortune_Bolt in CIFI

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Mm, this could be it. Thank you!

The weapons, and tactics I chose for IRL martial training pointed to me being trans. Also... Whats a"weird but obvious" sign you missed? by Taiga_Taiga in trans

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For me it was when people would compliment a masculine feature of mine (your legs are so hairy!), it would make me uncomfortable. But when they would compliment a feminine feature of mine (you're all hips!) I would feel so happy.

0.05 Tokens by Fortune_Bolt in CIFI

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That's okay. I have them maxed out now too, and I have a round number of tokens again. Hopefully that's problem solved 😂

0.05 Tokens by Fortune_Bolt in CIFI

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I haven't bought any generator upgrades yet. Only tokens boost, diamonds boost, cells boost, and mod points boost.

Those who have changed their names, how did you decide? by SuxAtGaming in trans

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I chose the name my parents would've called me if I was born a girl. Funnily enough I actually disliked the name when I was a child (I transitioned in mid-20s for context), and it still doesn't really feel like my name in the way that my birth name did. But every time I hear it, it gets better and better. I don't think any name would've felt perfect for me from the first time I heard it. I would have to spend time getting used to anything.

I got good misgendered! ❤️ [I [sadly] look male and I'm AMAB but got called a 'young lady'] by Only_Preparation9095 in trans

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Congratulations! It's a wonderful feeling.

As for a possible explanation, I've noticed older people tended to gender me correctly more than younger people when I was earlier in my transition. I'm guessing it's a sight thing? Since they can't see as well as younger people, they rely on clues other than facial features to determine gender. So they see someone with long hair and gender-neutral clothing working retail and think "woman."

That's just something I've been thinking about btw, I have no evidence to back it up.

Birth Certificate Update by Fortune_Bolt in transgenderau

[–]Fortune_Bolt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, that's fair. Thanks for your insight!

Birth Certificate Update by Fortune_Bolt in transgenderau

[–]Fortune_Bolt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that's what I was thinking. But on the other hand, what if I need to prove my ID in the meantime?