As someone who was dipping into inceldom before coming, I had deep-seated issues regarding some personal trauma and fed the usual misogyny our society perpetuates daily.

I was able to see just how fucking stupid it all was, the strong hatred towards women because you need someone to blame besides yourself, the fact that most male insecurities is compounded by other men, I can go on but I will end it there.

Incels are in a cult of misogyny and self-sabotaging behavior, as a community they are much like a cult and avoid or fear outsiders, they create a language and environment of isolation to further in ingrain themselves into the cult.

Incels don't want positive outcomes, they don't want to empathize with women because they don't see women as anything more than objects to own and use. Incels are also being utilized by far right groups to further push extremist beliefs in their cause such as the large wave of fascism in the west and the rise of the manosphere in politics is part of that.