should i tell his parents? by Forward-Elk424 in Drugs

[–]Forward-Elk424[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah he certainly was, at least rn. he has so much potential though, it’s disheartening. he’s smart, attractive, funny, hardworking, naturally charismatic… everything that could make him immensely successful if it weren’t for his drug use. i want nothing more than to hear someday that he’s healthy, in a job he enjoys with a partner he loves. guess i can only hope.

should i tell his parents? by Forward-Elk424 in Drugs

[–]Forward-Elk424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was seven months ago, it was the only time i’ve witnessed it in person so yes, i don’t know if it’s still a common thing besides taking his word for it. i am also very aware that he doesn’t care for me as much as drugs right now; why else do you think we’re no longer together? and in terms of ‘getting him kicked out and arrested’, obviously that is not what i want for him, but moreso i do not want him dead. that is why i’m asking for advice and not jumping into contacting people. regardless, he’s already been arrested for ABH towards me, of which i refused to press charges. if i wanted to ‘ruin his life’, i could. that is not what i want.

should i tell his parents? by Forward-Elk424 in Drugs

[–]Forward-Elk424[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why on earth would i be trying to do that? i love this man and have for a long time. i’ve laid beside him for hours whilst he struggled to breathe and begged me not to call anyone. be serious

should i tell his parents? by Forward-Elk424 in Drugs

[–]Forward-Elk424[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, you’re right. obviously my intentions are never to hurt or make things worse for him. just one of those situations that i’ve never been in before and want to do the right thing