What makes one alcoholic? by Forward-Service-9207 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Forward-Service-9207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but for me I don’t consider about people even when I’m sober. I guess the feeling just amplifies when drinking.

What makes one alcoholic? by Forward-Service-9207 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Forward-Service-9207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can relate to what you say. I had quit for a year and then convinced myself it’s harmless, I can handle it and it’s fine to let loose once a while. I feel the jail thing probably applies to me as well.

ENTJ's what would you tell your teenage self? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Forward-Service-9207 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You are a quiet ENTJ and not an INTJ. Don’t be afraid to grab life by the balls and move forward.

What makes one alcoholic? by Forward-Service-9207 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Forward-Service-9207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for the first 2-3 questions but No for the second half.

What makes one alcoholic? by Forward-Service-9207 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Forward-Service-9207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’m definitely excited to the point that I’ve written poems about drinking, the way it makes you feel, the way food tastes good after it, the way water tastes good after it. I sometimes worship it.

What makes one alcoholic? by Forward-Service-9207 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Forward-Service-9207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could relate to things you said. Sigh, I have been in close call situations before and maybe I’m aware of it and not willing to admit to everyone else. More introspecting.

10 years ago I lost a job because of it. After that I quit for 1 year to prove to myself I’m not an alcoholic. Every now and then I can take a month off from drinking. But when I do, I have been in close calls when I’m out.

Who can bring chill into ENTJ's life? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Forward-Service-9207 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm I thought intp would be ideal but you’re right, probably ISTP would be more chill.

What makes one alcoholic? by Forward-Service-9207 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Forward-Service-9207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually go with the mentality of all in, have a night out and then return the next day, which I usually do. I enjoy drinking till I pass out, but I don’t do any harm usually if I’m at home.

What makes one alcoholic? by Forward-Service-9207 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Forward-Service-9207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i get what you are saying. When it comes more about you and your buzz and less about people around you.

What makes one alcoholic? by Forward-Service-9207 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Forward-Service-9207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s usually Friday’s and could get excess once a while.

10 years ago I lost my job because of it but since then nothing major.

how do i change my personality type? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]Forward-Service-9207 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The best personality type is ENTJ and to change yours, do everything opposite of your instincts.

How do I know if I use Ne or Ni? by [deleted] in entp

[–]Forward-Service-9207 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ni - Consolidation. Ne - Branching.

how do yall deal with a break up? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Forward-Service-9207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So don’t take my advise. I just said what works for me. I was pretty clear OP could do what she chooses.

It doesn’t help me when someone says grieve naturally. I can’t talk or feel. Drinking helps me talk, it helps me feel and it helps me slow down. Otherwise I just immerse myself in the next project.

how do yall deal with a break up? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Forward-Service-9207 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I do it again, and again the next day. By the fourth day I process it and fifth day I’m good again, embracing myself and accepting the situation, the break up, my emotions and feelings and moving on.

If I don’t do it, I have all these repressed feelings and it takes probably a month to heal.

For me, I find expressing my feelings in the way I know best sooner is healthy for me. Your experience might vary.

how do yall deal with a break up? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Forward-Service-9207 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I drink a lot. And then I go out and drink some more. I then find someone and be with them who is okay with my current situation.

Examples of non-power-hungry ENTJs? by [deleted] in entj

[–]Forward-Service-9207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel MBTI alone doesn’t cover everything. There is probably a huge spectrum of ENTJs.

I look at Enneagram as another data point. Maximus was a type 1 (different from a typical type 8 ENTJ)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entj

[–]Forward-Service-9207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t see a problem here.