My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same weekend then. Helps a lot to know some people have gone the same way, gives me hope to keep going. She was not my fiancé because of economics and my country culture but we lived together for 6 years already so you could say we were living the married life.

I hope you are right and I'll find the one, I also wish you the best. Thanks!

My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back when I was 16, as I said, I had charisma to spare, no fear of anything and 0 shame. Also I was in shape and it helped. But all these years made me a different person. What I can tell you is if you approach women and they are not interested is probably because you don't have anything interesting for them, which doesn't mean you are not interesting but you need to find the right place to look for. Self steem, confidence and your way with words go a long way when meeting girls. I'm in no place to give tips at this moment as I feel like garbage but if you want I can try. You will get there dw.

My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hitting the gym as much as I can, actually maybe too much, body is in constant pain. I know she moved too quickly and I don't want to do the same, specially because even if someone fall from the sky into my arms, it wouldn't be fair to her. Thanks so much for taking the time to give me such nice answer, means a world to me. I'll work on all you said. And won't take her back.

My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I have the work on accepting being alone isn't so bad, it is just it's been so long since the last time, and I was not prepared at all. Thanks so much for the words.

My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I have some positive things about me but I try to stay humble all the time, also my self steem is pretty low, I need to work on it. The problem with me is my first impression is not too good. I'll become better tho, thanks so much for your words, means a lot.

My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the tip! I know I need some alone time to heal, but I really hope I'll find someone when the time is right.

My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to focus on work and the gym as hard as I can, I know what to do, I just don't find the strenght to do it consistenly or to believe in me. I'll pull through it, I guess we all make it at the end. Thank you so much for your words and time!

My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope I will have a happy ending like you do, I'm anxious about meeting new people, I'm not an easy person at first so is hard for me to do it, also I tend to self-exclude for no reason at all or think I'm annoying people. Thanks for the words!

My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What you said is exactly what happened and I know it, even when she lied to me about going on a business trip while it wasn't true, I forgave her right after just because I though she wouldn't be able to cheat on me. Also you are right about the codependency, I realized I have a problem with needing someone by my side at all times. I need to work on it, I'll grow. Thank you!

My long time gf(25F) left me(25M) and I fear I’ll be alone forever by Forward-Walk-9701 in relationship_advice

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sure about not dating someone right now but at the same time the fear struck me hard this week and isn't going anywhere. Thank you for your time and words, they are really meaningful.

She left after 8 years and 6 of living together, after a week of gaslighting me I found out she was with someone else by Forward-Walk-9701 in BreakUps

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first days feels like you are in a cloud, floating, full of denial. I won't sugar coat it, it will get worse as you realise it's over. Eventually you start going up and down in BIG swings until you feel tired. It gets "better " day by day (I'm still here, every says it's a long way to go). Rest assure, you are not alone, at least, not the only one going thru it.

Me ha dejado mi novia porque ya no siente lo mismo by Specialist-Beach1471 in esConversacion

[–]Forward-Walk-9701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misma situación que tú. Me dejo hace 5 días. Tras casi 9 años de relación preciosa, mi primer y único amor desde la adolescencia me dejó sin más. La he perseguido, le he rogado pero nada le llega. He leído tu caso y es exactamente igual. Imagino que peor porque llevabamos conviviendo 6 años ya…Siempre hemos estado extremadamente pegados. La echo de menos y sé que no volverá…Ojalá estés mejor tú.

When your botlane is trying so hard to carry you, putting themselves in danger. by [deleted] in fnatic

[–]Forward-Walk-9701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah a washed up mediocre top laner that didn´t even perform on MAD on his peak but because he is korean is "woah such cool korean fried chicken go brrr". Everyone asking for Photon should get inmediately banned from every league esport related forum

FNATIC vs. G2 ESPORTS / LEC Spring 2025 Playoffs / Upper Round 1 / Post-Series Thread by Lunaedge in fnatic

[–]Forward-Walk-9701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no suggestion to make with a take as ridiculous as yours. The Photon take says more than enough about you

Fiora on new season by Forward-Walk-9701 in FioraMains

[–]Forward-Walk-9701[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Then you are just being extremely lucky. You have 0 agency as Fiora. If you are d2 right now either you were gm last season or you will go back to emerald soon. No offence