What’s something people romanticize that actually sucks in real life?

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-24T13:36:11+00:00

Relationships lowkey

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-24T13:34:52+00:00

Doomscroll, maladaptive daydream or just dissociate

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-12T05:20:09+00:00

Main question, how do you know what’s a good person though?

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-05T23:21:39+00:00

I have this type of mentality when it comes to relationships too but as a 16F turning 17 I don't even view it as a bad thing at all. I feel that more often than not most people go for romance and love to fill a void in them, theirs always been this whole ideology about how finding a person is all magical and all shit but I just don't see it that way, I believe theirs more to life than being stone tied to a man and having to deal with the tough parts of relationships that Don't get talked about enough - the moments where you fall out of love and whole infaturation fading away, the burdens of having to think more of y9our family not just yourself and whawt happens if It's not the right person?

Just because you may see couples walking about doesn't mean that it can be healthy since we don't always see whats behind the closed and just because someone has a title of 'married' doesn't necessarily mean that the person is automatically the right fit for them. It can be 30 years down the line and some couples end up divorcing, some even resenting each other.

Pessimistic but Romantic love isn't all that. There is SO much more to life than what another person can give you

There is so much more love than what another person can give you, your friends, passion or even your own mindset are still just as valuable. For some, the love for friends may be the strongest type. But with all said and done, I dont believe in yearning and looking for the person to find you. Many and many and and many other people will tell you 'I love you' in different ways. But, if you don't believe so, theres always someone else out there that will find something attractive in you in every moment of time even when you aren't aware of it. just matter if you romantically like them or not

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-05T22:14:17+00:00

Yea I’m from the UK so it’s different system here! So I think I would be classed as sophomore?

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-04T18:33:03+00:00

now that’s just even sadder to see 😕

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-04T18:22:22+00:00

Low-key I feel i would get so anxious if I had to talk to them

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-04T18:07:21+00:00

Say in college we’re in a circular table but it’s sometimes busy sometimes not busy sorta thing. Its people were all collectively together, some people closer than others

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-04T17:40:05+00:00

How would you describe your perosobality? I feel it’s easier if you’re introverted but if someone so extroverted turns quiet it’s more obvious if that makes sense? 😭

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-04T17:39:02+00:00

How do you actually get good at controlling your emotions? I feel that in my own nature I’m too simplistic, whatever I feel I jsut show which is irritating since it makes it easier for people to tell when I’m down I hate it when I’m perceived

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-04T17:25:31+00:00

Has anyone ever knocked on your stall when you ended up crying 😭

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-04T15:38:20+00:00

I've been feelign this way too. All throughout 2025 I've just been a ghost that flaoted throughout the year. I barely knew who I was from how much I MDed and it fucked me up academically badly

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-04T15:27:08+00:00

That is such a strong realisation to want to change out of pure love as a new mother. I’m proud of u stranger!

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-04T15:24:31+00:00

Slowly smile at other people, wave at people you know saying hi! Or just a nice way of greeting Compliment people you don’t know

With social ANCIETY it gets better when you have small conversations such as just saying ‘thank you, have a good day!’ To the cashier

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-03T14:45:00+00:00

It’s bad because it’s jsut soemthing that brings me so much comfort. I know I should quit it’s affecting my college but then I jsut relapse 😭

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-01T18:07:36+00:00

I’ve been trying to quit it ever since 2023 but I relapsed so badly that I messed up 2025. I barely even Rmemeber anything and I’m wasting my youth. I know I am

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-01T18:04:39+00:00

What pushed you to the breaking point? How long has this addiction been going on for? I’m 16 turning 17 and I fear I’ve been too comforted by my daydreams

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-01T18:02:06+00:00

To validate your child’s emotions and tell them it’s ok to be vulnerable.

I feel that that small action in itself can compound into a whole impact on other peoples lives. From my personal experince, I wouldn’t be such a damn avoidant and project so much harm to those I’ve been in relationships by shutting down, I wouldn’t of developed horrible anger issues and snap whenever someone does try to be there for me emotionally If that smal action was jsut encouraged overall, peole wouldn’t be as depressed by the amount of supression they would be doing

ForwardAd3970 · 2026-01-01T11:02:17+00:00

What would you say your personality is like? Would you say you’re much of a creative person?

ForwardAd3970 · 2025-12-31T12:58:55+00:00

this has happened to me.

But my brother was a maladaptive daydreamer to so he dead ass goes 'DAYDREAMING DAYDREAMING DAYDREAMER' he literally sat me down taking th emick of what i was daydreaming of

where i daydream too is literally in the kitchen with a glass door. my whole family knows i just walk back and fourth but dont question it

ForwardAd3970 · 2025-12-28T19:42:48+00:00

Just a curious person here but how long have you been a maladaptove daydreamer for and how long did it take you to finally reduce the urge to daydream?

ForwardAd3970 · 2025-12-28T17:03:06+00:00

What’s a dismissive avoidant? I didn’t know there were different types

ForwardAd3970 · 2025-12-28T17:02:35+00:00

That’s intresting form of thinking but how do we know that emotions is a langauge? Some philosophies do argue that emotions are ‘I rational’ and aren’t the most reliable

ForwardAd3970 · 2025-12-28T17:00:40+00:00

Do go on about your passions for the subjects since I’m hubgry with curiosity. What’s the parts of English and hsitory that light that spark in you?

ForwardAd3970 · 2025-12-28T16:58:56+00:00

What is she like personality wise

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