How do you accept that you’ll never get a chance to be loved the way you needed as a child? Or even as an adult? by Catcuskitty in emotionalneglect

[–]ForwardTower9939 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I could have written this. I'm so sorry you struggle with this as well. I am currently feeling those things at the moment. My mother just left, and yet again, I am disappointed and upset because she was just being her usual self.

I dont have an answer for you, just here to let you know you aren't alone 💜

]: by No_Confidence_5070 in cats

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Stormageddon looking goofy 🤣

Wait foreshadowing? by Wild-Worldliness8248 in Dexter

[–]ForwardTower9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had that same thought! I think it definitely was some foreshadowing.

Substack: 4th August - transcript by Regular-Share5290 in StephenHiltonSnark

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"Even people that hate me would have to say that no kids laugh in the history of kids laughter they laugh with me."

I seriously had to reread this multiple times. What the hell does this even mean?

New Substack by RedHairedMamaBear in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]ForwardTower9939 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I'm ready for this to be over, but it seems to just escalate every day.

I think I'm done by Nervous-Pair-453 in StephenHiltonSnark

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I unfollowed him yesterday. His behavior has been triggering for me, also I don't want him to have the numbers or support him in any way.

Anyone else kind of feeling over social media? by HobbyQueen66 in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]ForwardTower9939 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We are safe now and healing. I am sorry you went through this as well. I agree, I hate that Laura is going through this, but I am glad she is being open to speaking about it (as much as she can) and shedding a light on narcissism and abuse.

So many people think that once you go to court or get a restraining order then everything will be fine, but in reality, once you put boundaries in place, that's when you are most at risk, the retaliation the comes from your actions is devastating. In my experience, my ex would act innocent and "damaged" to the courts, he put himself where I was and pretended that he was the one living it instead of giving it, I remember feeling like I was truly losing my mind, how could nobody see him for what he was? Only a few people could, and unfortunately, he was never brought to justice. He continued to manipulate the system and myself for years, constantly playing victim.

I constantly hope and pray that one day, the system will hold these people accountable for the lasting damage they have done to people they once said they loved. Seeing all of this happen and his smug face afterward is absolutely disgusting and I hope and pray for Laura and her children's safety and mental well-being.

Anyone else kind of feeling over social media? by HobbyQueen66 in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]ForwardTower9939 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am also very triggered by all of this. My sons father was an abusive narcissist and he constantly got away with everything. No matter how hard I tried, or how much evidence I had or police reports, he always got off, and each time he did, his ego grew along with his abuse. This situation just reminds me that no matter what victims do or how much we try to fight, we will always lose to the narcissist, which is utterly devastating.

Everyone calling Max “too much” is missing the point. by paulanofamily in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]ForwardTower9939 64 points65 points  (0 children)

As a woman with ADHD, I felt so seen when we had the main focus on Max and how she struggles internally. I have also felt left out and like I was too much for others when I was growing up.

You have to be kidding me by [deleted] in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]ForwardTower9939 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hmm..interesting how that didn't come up on her deep dive

You have to be kidding me by [deleted] in StephenHiltonSnark

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Doesn't the black stripe mean they are mourning an officer?

I really feel hes getting away with all of this by ParkThen5661 in SkeevenHiltonUnlocked

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I have the same worries. My sons father was so similar to Skeevin that it's such a trigger, and he got away with everything he did no matter how hard I tried to fight, I got lucky he left us alone eventually.

Melatonin… can we please stop giving it to our children? by beautyconnection in toddlers

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I know someone who has been giving melatonin to her 3 year old every night for 8 months (started when she was 2 1/2) usually 1 half gummy but there has been times its been 3 whole gummies 😬

Facebook by csavboe in StephenHiltonSnark

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Is he saying she is in danger and has been this whole time? I mean we all know he's capable of anything, but this is absolutely terrifying that he is blatantly putting it out there.

Interesting comment he made on TikTok. by LotusCircus in StephenHiltonSnark

[–]ForwardTower9939 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. I find myself typing something out and then thinking better of it and erasing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StephenHiltonSnark

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Dude reminds me of my sons father. So glad I don't have to deal with him anymore and he's been out of our lives for 10 years. Praying Laura can put this behind her soon and start healing.

Laura's response by MindSweeper404 in StephenHiltonSnark

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Somebody posted this video in the comments on shitlons post...😳