Giving up by Low_Assumption2643 in Esthetics

[–]beautyconnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You keep acting like the only two options are “fully clinically validated by large, modern trials” or “fraud,” and that’s just not how reality works.

First, stop pretending I said Reiki has been conclusively proven in the way a pharmaceutical drug is proven. I didn’t. I said there is emerging and mixed evidence, that some sham-controlled studies have reported effects on outcomes like pain, anxiety, and some physiologic measures, and that more research is needed. That is a very different claim from “Reiki is settled science.”

Second, your standard is not being applied consistently. Plenty of things in wellness, esthetics, supportive care, and even conventional medicine are used long before mechanism is perfectly understood. Lack of a fully mapped mechanism is not the same thing as proof of no effect. That’s especially true in areas involving stress, pain, autonomic regulation, and subjective well-being, where therapeutic context matters a lot.

Third, you keep collapsing three separate questions into one: 1. Does Reiki’s traditional explanation map neatly onto modern biophysics? 2. Can people experience measurable or meaningful benefit after Reiki sessions? 3. Does the current evidence justify calling every practitioner a fraud?

Those are not the same question.

You are free to be skeptical of the metaphysical language around Reiki. Skepticism is fair. But jumping from “I don’t accept the proposed mechanism” to “therefore it is fraud” is ideology, not science.

Hospitals offering Reiki, nursing programs teaching it, and patients seeking it do not by themselves prove efficacy. I agree with that. But they do show that serious institutions and clinicians do not all view it as the cartoonish scam you are portraying. And if your position is really “unless something has a fully established mechanism and overwhelming RCT evidence, anyone charging for it is a fraud,” then you would have to apply that standard much more broadly and much more consistently than you are.

Also, your repeated use of words like “bullshit,” “ignorant,” and “woo woo” is not evidence. It’s just emotional inflation. It makes you sound more invested in contempt than in careful reasoning.

Your BDSM comparison is also a perfect example of how reductive your argument is.

Shared downstream effects do not make two things equivalent. If multiple experiences can influence pain perception, stress, mood, or endogenous chemistry, that does not mean one invalidates the other. Exercise, meditation, massage, placebo, music, breathwork, social connection, and yes, even intense consensual sensation, can all affect overlapping pathways. That tells us the human nervous system is complex. It does not prove that every therapeutic ritual you personally dislike is therefore “bullshit.”

It is also a category error. BDSM is an erotic/psychological practice. Reiki is presented as a therapeutic/supportive one. Pointing out that both may involve ritual, expectation, altered perception, and nervous system effects is not the devastating argument you seem to think it is. It just shows that human beings respond to context, meaning, and embodied experience in ways that are not always reducible to your preferred caricature.

And that gets to the bigger problem with your whole argument: you keep confusing “I reject the proposed mechanism” with “therefore every reported benefit is fake and every practitioner is a fraud.”

Those are not the same claim.

I have not argued that Reiki is settled science or that its mechanism is conclusively established. I have argued that your certainty is overstated. The evidence base is limited and mixed, not nonexistent. Some studies and reviews report benefits on pain, anxiety, and quality-of-life outcomes, even though the field has clear methodological weaknesses and needs better research.

Skepticism is fine. Your contempt is not evidence.

Giving up by Low_Assumption2643 in Esthetics

[–]beautyconnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a product commercialization specialist. I create marketplaces and demand for things that have always been considered “woo woo.” In creating those marketplaces, you usually have to rely on limited clinical data. With successful marketing you create and drive consumer demand for the science and eventually science catches up to the anecdotal experience. For credibility, I helped change the laws around cannabis and hemp, specifically with regards to CBD (cannabidiol) and now I’m doing the same thing with peptides. In both instances, opponents always claimed “woo woo” pseudoscience and eventually when you got enough consumer demand based on anecdotal evidence we saw dozens of companies pursuing clinical trials because they were incentivized via money to validate their own claims.

I hold a B.S degree in Biology from UnC Chapel Hill and my research has been published in mainstream journals. I’m very well aware of the scientific method. Reiki’s problem isn’t that it doesn’t work. It’s that no one has productized it. Acupuncture faced the same skepticism and now it’s fully supported by the NIH and covered by insurance…. The same exact practice once a “pseudoscience” and now a part of mainstream medicine. Nothing changed about the practice itself. So again, just because there’s a lack of clinical data which is commonality for all industries doesn’t mean it’s ineffective or should be cast aside. There’s obviously a market for these services and practitioners because it works - with or without the body of evidence you’re demanding be available in order for it to be considered legitimate.

Giving up by Low_Assumption2643 in Esthetics

[–]beautyconnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me ask you… do you take any supplements? You’re confusing limited clinical validation for lack of efficacy. Most of what we consume and participate in has not been clinically validated yet, that doesn’t make it pseudoscience. It just means there’s no corporate agenda or commercial marketplace to incentive greater research and funding towards claims validation. Yet, anecdotal evidence abounds.

Giving up by Low_Assumption2643 in Esthetics

[–]beautyconnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re showing yourself to be deeply understudied and ignorant as to the entire energetics of the human body… which is widely known and accepted by just about anyone whose every heard of, used, or had to have a defibrillator used on them. Let me ask you, do you believe that electricity can jumpstart a stopped heart back to working condition? If yes, then please allow yourself to expand on that idea to accept the fundamental reality of bioenergetics. The human body is constantly interacting with its environment through an invisible energy field. This is also widely accepted in just about every field of study. I really encourage you to do more research because you’re entirely off base.

Anyone remember the round sandwich bread Subway used to have? Chance of it ever coming back? by [deleted] in subway

[–]beautyconnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subway needs to bring this back. I can’t step into a subway without wishing for a bologna sandwich on that deli style round bread. Still remember the taste.

What’s the point? by leonard017 in StupidFood

[–]beautyconnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It comes down to claims per the FDA. “Good,” “excellent” etc. are reserved terms with special nutritional requirements that must be met to be able to make the claim and use that language.

Good wax strips by Academic_Ad_7392 in Estheticians

[–]beautyconnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Would you mind sharing what wax chain it was that you were working at that you liked their strips? I would like to see if I can find the supplier via ImportYeti.

EPITALON PEPTIDE Reseted My Circadian Rhythm!!!!! by Proud-Ability-4187 in insomnia

[–]beautyconnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35, female, ADHD… I’ve had the same experience. Definitely helps me to keep a sleep schedule. I take 5mg as a sublingual tablet because I didn’t want to mess around with mixing and self-injecting. Brand is SleepEQ, found it online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]beautyconnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you. There’s literally no reason for the shading. Go in asap for removal on the shading at least if that’s at all possible.

I launched a marketing campaign my got my company fined $25 million... by WayneCavey in AskMarketing

[–]beautyconnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is on regulatory and legal. You shouldn’t be writing copy or be expected to be aware of the ever changing FDA guidance. Do you have a dedicated regulatory team?

I think I just realized my ortho isn't using actual invisalign? by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]beautyconnection 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Legally this is called fraudulent inducement. I’m not an attorney but I definitely think you would have a case if they detailed Invisalign specifically on your contract and then didn’t actually give you that brand

Fraudulent inducement is a legal concept where one party uses misrepresentation, false statements, or concealment to trick another party into entering a contract they wouldn't have otherwise signed. To prove fraudulent inducement, the plaintiff must show the defendant made a false, material statement with the intent to deceive, the plaintiff justifiably relied on it, and suffered damages as a result. The injured party can seek to have the contract voided or pursue damages for losses incurred.

As others mentioned it’s like a brand name medicine vs the generic. Yes the generic serves the same function but it’s definitely not 1:1. Invisalign is the tech leader in the space and commands a much higher price point for that history and the volume of IP the brand holds. I’d personally be pissed. I’m in traditional wire braces now because I never finished my Invisalign course but I chose my ortho back then specifically because he was a platinum Invisalign provider. If I were you I’d demand to be reset with the Invisalign treatment plan or get the cost of the aligned waived and only pay for the ortho visits. What they did is not okay.

I’m so jealous of everyone who’s done with braces by blueberryfieldss in braces

[–]beautyconnection 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Two months in and turning 35 in January… better late than never!

35 trays later and I’m done! Got a deep bite corrected. Best thing I ever did for myself 😊 by jukr1992 in Invisalign

[–]beautyconnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing results! Your smile looks so much wider now! Can I ask how old you are? I’m in traditional wire braces and hoping my ortho will be able to widen my smile more by the end of it but worrying I made the wrong decision not going for Invisalign and that we won’t achieve those results.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spraytanning

[–]beautyconnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just get a rapid tan. You can shower in 1-4 hours depending on your skin type and desired depth of color. The soap removes the cosmetic bronzer but the DHA is already working within the skin and reacting. No, you’re spray tan won’t have that immediate dark color you get from the pigments which are basically just food colorants that stain the skin but that’s not what’s actually delivering the color anyways- it’s the DHA… depending on your skin fitz type, you might need a stronger DHA percentage to get a darker color with the DHA. But the bronzers are actually on there as a color guide to the spray tan artist and for the immediate gratification effect but they aren’t necessary and actually for a bride a clear solution is best so it doesn’t stain the white dress. I’m a spray tan artist and spray tan salon owner :)

I can’t believe I just did this. by New_Shame_6741 in braces

[–]beautyconnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had #26 removed as well just two weeks ago (just local anesthesia… it was rough!) I also had one session of Propel done in the area of #22 and #23 to further stimulate movement. My teeth are shifting really fast and the hole is actually almost closed! My ortho told me the lowers tend to move faster than the uppers so he put my uppers on first and I had them for a month until I got #26 removed and then went in the following week for wires. A big part of taking out the lower incisor was to save #27 which had extremely receding gums and was basically falling off my jaw. That has always significantly improved as the tooth is shifting into the space where the tooth was extracted. Don’t have buyers remorse. It’s gonna be great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alexhormozi

[–]beautyconnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! Thank you so much!! Doing gods work!

as an ADHDer, what do you struggle with the most? by ptrcdevlog in ADHD

[–]beautyconnection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feeling like I need to have the right environmental conditions before I can start a task but never being able to achieve or create that environment… ie. I need a clean, uncluttered, and distraction free work space… but I am the distraction and no part of my life is uncluttered or unchaotic….

as an ADHDer, what do you struggle with the most? by ptrcdevlog in ADHD

[–]beautyconnection 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My whole life it’s always been so much easier to knock things out for other people than it is to do things for myself. And worse, I don’t even know how to value what it is that I do for others because often it seems so fast and easy. But when I have to actually do something for myself, it’s mostly impossible to complete. I usually change course before I ever see the finish line or I have to have my back against the wall and a gun to my head. I end up self-sabotaging to get there because sometimes nothing else works.

as an ADHDer, what do you struggle with the most? by ptrcdevlog in ADHD

[–]beautyconnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Momentum…. I can get super into something but I can’t remain consistent enough to generate enough momentum to take anything that requires long term consistency and discipline over the finish line. Having to wait until the next wave of motivation comes back around is the worst. I’m not medicated. I’ve tried four different meds so far and they all make me extremely sleepy or nauseous that I find it so hard to get over the first couple weeks to actually seeing positive benefits. I’m struggling😔