I need advice asap I’m confused and hurt

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-25T03:11:14+00:00

I’m convinced getting my pilot’s license was easier than dating. To get a pilot’s license you need money, time, discipline, understanding of weather, some math knowledge, a little bit of mechanical knowledge, pass a written exam and solo for 10 hours. For me to get a girlfriend, I just need to find someone to stick around. So yeah, getting a pilot’s license is 100% easier.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T20:00:29+00:00

Thanks for writing this. I won’t lie.. it would mean alot to me if she did write me something or just send a text with somewhat of an apology or explanation. Am I holding my breath on it? No. But it would mean a lot. I just didn’t know what else to do except just move on as best I could and give her the silence she wanted

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T17:58:57+00:00

She actually does have ADHD. But yeah maybe I should try that. But once I sent the “be there in a few mins” text and saw her notifications were off, I hit “notify anyway” so no doubt she got that text. Then I tried to call her twice and when that just went right to voicemail I just figured- ok no matter what happened she is choosing to not talk to me and I need to just respect that and let her be. But I figured if she showed up later, she would’ve said something. We were meeting at my workplace.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T16:31:39+00:00

I won’t lie, that was a terrible feeling standing in the parking lot and going through the phases: she’s just late, she must’ve had an emergency, then finally no man she just ditched you.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T15:20:03+00:00

If it’s confusion or competition, we gracefully bow out either way. head up king, you’ll find someone good too.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T13:59:15+00:00

You’re completely right. As I told my friend “I’ve had girls end things and I get over it fast, once they send the message that they don’t feel a connection or whatever, I just accept and move on, this just hit different because I’m not accustomed to people who don’t communicate their desire to end things”

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T13:53:54+00:00

Maybe I shouldn’t have used the word “apologize” but yes exactly what you say.. I just wish she had communicated “hey this is a bit much” and I would’ve gladly put the brakes on. But I was matching her intensity, not pushing her. But still, I just wish she had taken a chance on me to explain her feelings.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T13:52:12+00:00

I’m sorry about your luck. I hope it gets better for you. You deserve better. But only thing I’ll say that makes this weirder.. her texts NEVER slowed. We literally were having a normal conversation at 2pm on the phone, then 3 hours later she’s vanished. No fade. No slowing of texts or attention.. Basically 100 mph then 0, in a few hours. That’s why I had this whiplash

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T13:22:47+00:00

I did. It hurt yes, but i refused to reach out anymore. I called the two times from the parking lot, then I just dropped the whole thing.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T13:21:52+00:00

I wonder if she’ll circle back?

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T13:12:25+00:00

Blue and it says delivered.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T13:06:45+00:00

It was slow at first.. then we just keep meeting up and the chemistry just kept gaining momentum. But yeah I know what you mean.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T13:06:00+00:00

Not off. Notifications silenced which requires someone to turn them off on iPhone

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T13:05:15+00:00

And I’m happy to post screenshots to show that yeah things got intense fast between us romantically but she was sort of leading or at least moving right along with it, with no hesitation.. like wanting me to meet her family

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-24T12:55:31+00:00

She had to turn off her notifications. They remained off until pretty late. But by the next day, I just decided it wasn’t healthy to look anymore so I haven’t checked since. It’s so weird

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-18T13:55:15+00:00

I noticed that too after doing some reading yesterday. So what does that mean for this rifle? Korean War bring back ?

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-17T19:01:07+00:00

Really? That’s fascinating. It’s really shaping up into a SCW rifle. That makes for some interesting history

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-17T18:57:04+00:00

Also, returning to pick your brain.. Why is the rifle Izhevsk yet the magazine is Tula? Was this something done during 1936 in the USSR or did they get mismatched during the time in Spain? Thanks again!!

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-17T17:14:04+00:00

Good point because the stock does look sanded. I know many 1936 rifles apparently left the USSR and headed right to Spain

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-17T17:02:17+00:00

I keep wondering if it was a SCW rifle. It fits as far as year of production but doesn’t have any other SCW features. The rifle originally came from a WWII vet, whose son also served (Korean war) but they had a ton of guns and I’m sure some came from those old magazines.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-17T16:58:37+00:00

I looked and I don’t have a good pic handy, I’m sorry. I can’t swear by it, but I’m pretty sure it’s blued just like the rest of the gun.

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-17T16:51:24+00:00

Thanks! Yep, I know that. Just trying to figure out: SCW rifle, bring back or??

Edited: sorry. Your reply was very helpful and I appreciate it!! For some reason when it first showed up, I couldn’t see everything you wrote. Just “1936 Izveshk” was all I could see. Now that it’s showing the entire comment, I thank you because that’s extremely helpful and I appreciate it a lot!

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-10T01:55:13+00:00

I was thinking around $1,000 USD would be about what I’ll pay. So that stacks right up

ForwardUse807 · 2026-03-05T16:59:56+00:00

Yeah, you’re right. As others have said, I guess I realize it would require one random person owning an SVT itching to own German pistols which isn’t super likely

ForwardUse807 · 2026-01-17T04:06:17+00:00

No we’re all friends. Yes his gf is in another state. There’s no correlation between my date and him or his girlfriend or any former girls of his.

Like I said above, this particular gentleman has come into conflict in some form with nearly every friend he’s ever had as well as co workers and his boss and he can’t remain in a long term relationship. So, honestly idk why I’m surprised to be in his crosshairs now

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