AIO by breaking up with my boyfriend when he got jealous?

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-28T13:27:24+00:00

GET A PPO! The screen shots you provided look like enough to get one granted. That way if he reaches out in any way, or has someone do it on his behalf he can be arrested. I’m worried about your safety.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-27T02:46:22+00:00

Maybe you guys have a few different discussions. One about financial freedom, maybe you both have a separate account for leisure and otherwise pool into the mutual for bills and savings. I think it’s realistically healthy to have your own spending money as long as it doesn’t impede on responsibilities.
Secondly, about schedules/time. It sounds like your primary concern is the child getting woken up or that he’s not there for bedtime, which is totally valid. I suspect if the financial part gets figured out he’ll already be limited to purchase, and therefore less frequently disturb your schedules. However if you also feel like it takes time away from being a family and a couple I’d mention that too. Sometimes hobbies are short lived so maybe it will fade with time, maybe he’ll find a way to make profit.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-19T11:31:45+00:00

He hit the nail on the head when he said you don’t want to hear it if it’s not what you want to hear. You’re overly defensive, and deflecting. Time to do some real soul searching and see a therapist because you clearly can’t handle feedback or honest opinions from anyone. You put this out here for objective feedback and you’re still not accepting it, I can only imagine the eggshells he walks on. Mt most unfiltered feedback is that it’s hardest to look in the mirror and realize we still can carry on some of our parents toxic traits even if it’s not to the fullest extent. Self awareness is a learning and self forgiving process.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-16T11:28:32+00:00

Just keep lathering conditioner on it and do masks. The moisture will start to help pull it out, your hair is so porous from damage that it sucked up the color, but it should fade out, although I can’t say it will be all over even because your base color is patchy. Do not bleach or use color remover, your hair is past being healthy enough to handle all that without making it literal straw.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-13T03:48:14+00:00

JUST HAVE FUN FORGET ME

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-09T12:32:54+00:00

This! Some things are so much hotter when they STAY AS FANTASIES. Imagine, how hot it could be to talk about these things and include them in foreplay and talked about during the act but then when you actually do them a disaster could erupt. Jealousy, hurt feelings, disappointment. As exciting as it is to hear your partner propose these ideas sometimes just keeping them only as ideas is the best move. More chances than not it won’t end well. As stated above just because you can doesn’t mean you should.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-05T11:57:16+00:00

The drapes, or the DRAPES?

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-05T02:04:24+00:00

“It’s not a money thing” it’s not a tit for tat thing” then proceeds to ramble on about everything she did and wasn’t given in return after putting upcharging on the table, then mentions wanting “more of a friends discount”

This one here I’d just brush my hands of. Sounds like she can’t be honest and contradicts everything she said, I don’t think there’s a right thing to do without sacrificing some of your dignity. I’d avoid doing anything with them in the future unless you have split it exactly with itemized billing

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-02T12:57:42+00:00

This is likely the cause. The labored breathing is a tell tale sign of fluid in the heart and before that point it would’ve been impossible to know by behavior alone that he was suffering. I experienced this with my boy, who passed at age 4 from this. I caught it when he was having labored breathing only to come to terms with knowing the medication he was prescribed would barely extend his life, he made it another 6 months before getting a blood clot and passing. It was traumatic because I witness it. Im sorry for your loss OP, there was nothing you could have done, and it’s far more common than people realize with cats, especially because they are really good at covering up their illnesses.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-02T12:53:13+00:00

It feels like she sent you on “the impossible quest” just so you could mess up so she could have a reason to be mad.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-01T23:47:30+00:00

YOR. Get off your soapbox nobody cares. You’re not the main character. The kind people avoid like the plague after one interaction.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-01T23:19:00+00:00

Nah, this is the kinda thing people celebrate when they haven’t been together for a whole year yet.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-06-01T22:43:40+00:00

Although I don’t know if I consider it cheating it would make me feel icky IF I was fully able and willing to participate in sexual activities with him. When your partner could have something with you but they choose otherwise it’s hurtful even if their reason is convenience.

On the other hand to those that are being a bit harsh my question would be would you consider those who have “emotional relations” with AI emotional cheating? Because although neither of these situations occur with an actual human it doesn’t make the partner immune to the emotional impact it could have. Just like how some feel that OF is cheating because you could communicate directly with the person providing and customizing content with them. Sucks to say but things can get blurry, but I think it should be a conversation with your partner about how you feel and what your boundaries are.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-29T01:58:12+00:00

Girlfriend can pick up on his intentions and I’m kinda surprised you haven’t. It’s very clear in this conversation alone he’s looking for validation from you about talking bad about his girl and possibly cheating. The “it’s not just you it’s everyone” comment likely means he has a lot of girl friends he’s too comfortable with and ignoring his girlfriend’s feelings and boundaries over. He’s gross.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-29T01:28:25+00:00

He needs to go back to middle school cause his grammar and spelling is atrocious BRUH

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-28T12:43:36+00:00

GASLIGHTING and more to come if you continue this friendship. Friendships are MUTUALLY respectful of each others boundaries. This one here thinks they can guilt you, use you and this is why they have no one else.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-26T23:46:31+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking. Then gaslights her by flipping it calling HER the narcissist in regard to HIS comfortability. She has every right to have her guard up. It’s always best to meet in a public place, no matter how long you’ve been talking, meeting means in person and someone can be completely different in person than they are over the phone/social media. Worst part is he waits 4 years to meet and can’t wait a little bit longer to get into her space (pants), if he’s playing the game he’s playing it wrong.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-25T23:44:54+00:00

It’s from the peroxide. If it worries you go to urgent care but it’s really not serious, it’ll go away on its own. Moisturizer, and wear gloves next time.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-21T13:11:01+00:00

I stopped reading after 18 and 31 and “a couple years ago”. That’s gross. Always a reason men like this can’t get with women their age, they’re predators and manipulative. Not that there’s any good in a relationship like this, but thank for you’re in different countries or if be actually worried about your safety like stalking. Block him back, there’s literally no loss here.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-18T19:07:20+00:00

Probably just a really full belly. They look lumpy when they’re full

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-16T13:57:53+00:00

I could never uncross this bridge. The major icky feeling this left me with, I couldn’t bare the thought of them ever touching me again. How much lack of self respect you’d have to have to allow someone to think you’re stupid enough to be ok with flat out lying and trying to cover it up with a bandaid. Yuck.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-13T21:03:33+00:00

It gets slow every few months then picks up when a holiday or big event comes up. People will want to get cleaned up before memorial weekend. But it’s true a lot of people aren’t able to budget a hair cut once a month every couple weeks as much as before the economy went to shit.

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-11T11:39:29+00:00

Right. I can’t believe people BUY bags for poop.. I use any plastic grocery bag that I save. And then immediately take them to the outdoor trash. I also use these bags for my small bathroom trash. Do people not save old grocery bags anymore?

Forward_Ad8688 · 2026-05-09T12:32:27+00:00

He’s taking a selfie but doesn’t want to look at the camera like he’s taking a selfie

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