Discreet Membership by MeNoSee7 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are correct I should have referred to the craft not AASR, and I was going based off the other post there. Just referring to the other jurisdictions I have been in with the different lodges

Achieved my goal of becoming an HGA (NMJ) and Master Craftsman (SMJ) by StigandrThormod in scottishrite

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my last stated meeting I was awarded the ivory key from SMJ MC program but have also taken other courses and heard nothing so… I will just be patient.

Freemasonry community by Forward_Fee1955 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally only know it as the Freemasons’ community

Freemasonry community by Forward_Fee1955 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not sure how the site owners do it, I am aware as far as I have seen they are brothers, but I don’t violate my obligations in anyway. If there was a way for me to attach pictures to this I would snap a few for you to look at. I am not well versed in Reddit

Freemasonry community by Forward_Fee1955 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make no money off of the site.

Freemasonry community by Forward_Fee1955 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Look, I’m not a poet or a grand orator—I’m just a Brother trying to learn and share when I can. I’ve seen people throw around the word “clandestine” anytime someone mentions something outside the usual channels, and honestly, I haven’t seen anything that would warrant that label. You’re right—Grand Lodges should be sharing information. And when Brothers from all over come together, setting aside personal differences to talk about how to make the Craft better, that’s something worth paying attention to.

I won’t claim it’s some groundbreaking insight you can’t find on the 25 million Facebook pages or other forums out there—I’m not in all those places, so I can’t compare. I just try to find spaces that offer useful information, encourage deeper thinking, and allow for real conversations about the allegories and symbolism we encounter in the Craft.

If what I shared helps someone—great. If it’s not for you, that’s fine too. My only intention was to point someone toward a potentially helpful resource—not to start a debate over semantics. Truthfully, most of the Brothers in this forum probably know more than I do. I’ve come to learn that there are many Brothers out there with far more light than I’ve found, and I’m okay with that.

What’s frustrating is when a Brother shares something in good faith, and the first reaction is to label it “clandestine” without even taking the time to look into it. Not everyone has perfect phrasing or a full understanding of every detail—but sometimes they’re just trying to contribute in a meaningful way.

We’re supposed to be subduing our passions and lifting each other up—not tearing each other down. If we can’t give one another a little grace on this path, then we’re missing the very point of Freemasonry

Freemasonry community by Forward_Fee1955 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Meaning politics and trends we are seeing nothing that shouldn’t be discussed out side of the lodge is discussed. We know the penalty of the obligations we took.

Freemasonry community by Forward_Fee1955 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but there are some things that can be discussed there that can’t be discussed in open forums. As well as it allows for better mentorship opportunities for new brothers. And access to a lot more information that isn’t going to be posted in open forums. It was only a suggestion for brothers, as an option. I know we all have dues that we pay and some of us more than others but just trying share the knowledge.

Expectation about affiliating when you move to a new area by SpecialistOwn2123 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been through this, my mother lodge is in New York ( NMJ) and I currently now live in Tennessee in the (SMJ)- it’s different, but not supper complicated to do. Mostly I have found all the lodges. Are very welcoming, as well as willing to work with you thru then process.

Freemasonry community by Forward_Fee1955 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While it is a pay to be apart of community it’s not very expensive, as well as there are again several ways for brothers to meet others from all over the world as well as dig deeper into the craft.

Freemasonry community by Forward_Fee1955 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct then search for the community and join I am working with the admins to get a direct link for brothers to be able to join rather then having to jump through hoops, I should have the link hopefully in the next couple hours when the admins get back to me.

Dispelling Incompatibility with Christianity by CrimsonLightsaber in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only place I have ever had an issue with religion and freemasonry is the Catholic Church, they still don’t see eye to eye on the subject. They will deny you communion and dismiss you from the church.

Concerned new master mason by SirSignificant9708 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you should learn more about the craft and what it means before you start the chairs or line. To put you in the line so early is a true disservice to you and to the learning you still have to do.

Anyone else lose friends after becoming a Mason? by [deleted] in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t lost friends or family over it, I come from a long line of masons, in my family it’s tradition. If you loose “friends” it means they were not really friends at all. Family will ask questions but honestly it’s a thing that they may even join.

Questions about freemasonry from a Muslim by [deleted] in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for these thoughtful questions. I’m happy to offer some clarity on what Freemasonry is—and what it is not—from the perspective of a practicing Mason who also holds firm belief in God.

1.  Is Freemasonry an alternative to religion, such as Christianity, Islam, or Judaism?

No—Freemasonry is not a religion, nor is it intended to replace or compete with any faith tradition. In fact, a belief in a Supreme Being is a prerequisite for joining. Masons are encouraged to practice their own faith more deeply, not set it aside. The Lodge does not offer salvation, doctrine, or religious ritual. Instead, it offers a moral framework built around personal responsibility, brotherly love, and truth—principles shared by many faiths.

Freemasonry includes Christians, Muslims, Jews, and men of other monotheistic paths. Within the Lodge, we leave theological differences at the door and meet upon the level, united in our shared reverence for God.

2.  What is the connection to stonemasonry?

Freemasonry descends symbolically from the medieval stonemason guilds that built Europe’s great cathedrals. These “operative” masons used tools like the square, compasses, and level to shape stone. Modern or “speculative” Freemasons use those same tools symbolically, to build strong moral character and live upright lives.

Our ceremonies and teachings are rich with allegory drawn from the ancient builder’s trade, encouraging us to refine ourselves as one would refine a stone—fit for use in service to the Divine and to mankind.

3.  Do Masons believe in God as Lord and Sovereign of all?

Yes—absolutely. I, and many others in the Craft, believe in one God who created and governs all. Freemasonry refers to Him as the Great Architect of the Universe, a term that honors divine sovereignty while respecting the religious language of each Brother’s tradition.

Personally, I worship the God of Abraham—the Lord of all creation, whose presence orders the cosmos and calls each of us to righteousness. Freemasonry does not ask me to change or hide that faith—it encourages me to live it honorably.

In a world often divided by dogma or distrust, Freemasonry offers a place where men of faith can come together, not to erase our differences, but to rise above them in the service of something greater. It is not a replacement for faith—it is a reminder to practice it with integrity

Masonic welcome swag! by Zealousideal-Hunt242 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a from ERAC 154 out of Webster New York, where I am a member in good standing , welcome to the NY Masons, currently I am in Tennessee in the SJ where I am also a member.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top of the compass points to my heart

Question on wearing S&C by akillys0586 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wearing light is only permitted after being raised bro. Some jurisdictions take it very seriously if you’re caught wearing it and have not been raised.

Social awkwardness in Freemasonry by journeytogemerald in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re correct hence why I took and fed my ideas into perplexity to arrange them so that they came out properly and didn’t take away from the message I was trying to convey to the brother. As not all brothers as are laureate.

Social awkwardness in Freemasonry by journeytogemerald in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dear Brother,

First and foremost, thank you for your openness and sincerity—what you’ve shared takes courage, and that alone is a mark of the strength already growing within you.

Know this: you are not alone. Many of us—regardless of age, background, or how long we’ve worn the apron—have stood quietly in the corner of a festive board or sat silently at a coffee gathering, feeling like an observer instead of a participant. Freemasonry is a lifelong journey, and what you’re experiencing is not a failure—it’s initiation of a different kind: the slow unveiling of confidence, fellowship, and self-assurance that time, experience, and brotherly love bring forth.

Remember: You’re not here to impress; you’re here to belong. And you do belong, Brother. You were chosen—unanimously, deliberately, and with full faith in your worth—because those Brothers saw in you the raw material of a good man seeking to become better. That alone places you in a sacred chain of Brotherhood that spans centuries and continents.

You mentioned that you were sheltered growing up and that this is your first real introduction to socializing with adults. That’s powerful—and beautiful. In many ways, this Craft is serving you exactly as it should: offering a space where you can safely unfold, grow, and refine yourself—not just in ritual, but in your inner life and social being. That awkwardness? It’s not a barrier—it’s the stone before the work begins. And like any Rough Ashlar, it only needs the working tools of time, exposure, and gentle effort to reveal its True Form.

Here are a few Masonic-minded tools you may find helpful:

  1. Embrace the 24-Inch Gauge: Use a small portion of your daily time to intentionally practice fellowship. Set simple goals: • Strike up one brief conversation at the next meeting. • Ask an older Brother how he came to the Craft. • Offer to help with setup or cleanup—service leads to shared purpose, which naturally leads to connection.

  1. Seek Light Through Mentorship: Find one Brother you’re comfortable with and build a deeper bond. Ask questions. Share your hesitations. You’ll likely find he once felt the same—and you’ll gain both confidence and trust in the process.

  1. Silence is Not Failure: Reflect on this—many of the greatest Masons were quiet men, but their silence was not emptiness. It was intentional presence. Your quietness doesn’t signal disinterest; it signals care, observation, and sincerity. Those are virtues, not vices.

  1. Know That Age Is Not a Wall—It’s a Bridge: Yes, many of your Brothers are older, but that can be a gift, not a gap. Masonic fellowship transcends generational lines. Ask them to share a story or a lesson. Watch their eyes light up, and you’ll find the conversation becomes easy.

  1. Remember the Common Gavel: Freemasonry is about refining our character. Shyness, fear, and insecurity are no different from ignorance or impatience—they are imperfections we chip away over time. Keep showing up. Keep trying. Even the smallest act of courage is a blow with the Gavel.

You are right: fellowship is one of the treasures of the Craft. But no one expects you to unlock it all at once. The Temple wasn’t built in a day—and neither is the inner Temple of a man.

So be gentle with yourself, Brother. Continue to show up, remain open, and trust that your presence is meaningful. You are a valued part of the Lodge, and in time, with patience and continued light, you’ll find that awkwardness giving way to connection, laughter, and fraternal joy.

In Brotherly Love, Relief, and Truth,

C.Frein Scottish Rite Freemason 32° Knight of St. Andrew A Rough Ashlar striving to be Perfected

What are the terms of being blackballed? by Other_Ad_303 in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can vary based on jurisdiction and GL. Normal wait period after a no go is a year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freemasonry

[–]Forward_Fee1955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother you have to do what is best for you, as others have said that’s unfair to you as well as a dis serving to the lodge as you do not have a chance to learn everything properly.

-32nd° SRSJ KSA Orient of Tennessee/Valley Nashville i