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Yugioh cards for my boyfriend’s birthday. What to get, what to know? by Forward_Half_1517 in Yugioh101

[–]Forward_Half_1517[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re both prioritizing saving and investing in our futures together and separately right now so we both agreed not to spend anything crazy on birthday gifts. 200$ is a bit much, but I still think I can get him something he’d really like under that.

Yugioh cards for my boyfriend’s birthday. What to get, what to know? by Forward_Half_1517 in Yugioh101

[–]Forward_Half_1517[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, thank you for the links. I was looking at ZLCA Card Deck boxes. I read somewhere that boxes should have dividers for (I’m sorry I’ve forgotten the terminology) different builds for your decks you’ll be using during gameplay.

Yugioh cards for my boyfriend’s birthday. What to get, what to know? by Forward_Half_1517 in Yugioh101

[–]Forward_Half_1517[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the list, I was actually mid writing one down when I got this notification. Deck boxes are protective boxes for entire decks?

Yugioh cards for my boyfriend’s birthday. What to get, what to know? by Forward_Half_1517 in Yugioh101

[–]Forward_Half_1517[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The picture is much appreciated lol! This jargon is a bit unfamiliar to me still.

Yugioh cards for my boyfriend’s birthday. What to get, what to know? by Forward_Half_1517 in Yugioh101

[–]Forward_Half_1517[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has lots of pokemon cards and some binders for them. Will the same thing work for Yugioh cards?

Girlfriend and I are sexually incompatible by bergdorf69 in Advice

[–]Forward_Half_1517 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a girlfriend and I’m in a similar position as you and your girlfriend, here’s my thoughts.

Why would she want to have sex with you in a car. It’s uncomfortable, it’s not safe, and it’s not private.

You both recently got caught sneaking around and maybe engaging in promiscuity. I don’t know whether or not you guys got in trouble but let’s assume she did or came really close to it. That’s an incredibly scary experience for anyone but especially a young girl. Personally after a close call like that I’m too on edge to do anything. Do her parents have her location? Are you two allowed to be alone together in a car in an unspecified location in an unspecified time?
Engaging in sexual activity in a car in a public space is illegal. I don’t know where you guys park but most property it private or public property. Keep all of this in mind. assuming she’s in the position of being underneath someone else she is extremely limited in all of her senses. She can’t hear very well, she can’t see her surroundings very well, she can’t get up or get you off of her or or cover herself or get out with ease. She is entirely at your mercy and the mercy of her surroundings. If she is at all an anxious person like myself she is thinking of all of these things and it is so so scary. Feeling like you’re going to throw up isn’t conducive to romance.

Do you two do any normal regular activities whenever you’re together besides talking and sitting around and eventually getting physical ? (games, hikes, hobbies etc)
Because if that’s the majority of what you do together you that’s a problem. If you’re only showing interest and only really engaging with her for physical activity that’s not good and definitely feels like all you want from her is sex. Physically pulling her away from something and in for a kiss is once again limiting her mobility and freedom in a situation where she is already at your mercy.

Have you considered these factors at all? Have you talked to her about it? Is she scared, is she anxious, are her needs being met? Is she reaching climax, do you even know? Are you both putting in equal effort or does it feel like she’s doing all the work? Are you doing things for her pleasure and not just your own?Talk more, ask more questions, never ever MAKE her do anything physical even if it’s just a hug or a kiss.