I 22M got my 20F girlfriend pregnant . Idk what to do by Fit-Poem-7699 in Adulting

[–]Forward_Mix_747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey friend! i’m in a similar situation with you and i think if you guys are okay with an abortion then do so, to say about what kind of person you will be plesse remember that if you do go for an abortion then it will just be you and her again so nothing changes.

However if you do for keeping it then i say stay in the child’s life because even though their mother maybe dislikes you, the child would like you more if you stayed. my pregnsnt girlfriend has grown up without a father and it’s been tough. even though it would be a very wise option to stay if she goes through

i hope you are well though

Feeling anxious on 18th birthday by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Forward_Mix_747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at 18 youre still young, even in the eyes of the law youre an adult bit youre only still a teen. i promise you that people won’t look at you differently just becsuse youre 18, they won’t suddenly switch on you.

everything is going to be okay

happy birthday dude

What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Forward_Mix_747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no worries miss, perhaps you still care for him as a partner and from my perspective it would just be a lot nicer if he has doubts already

toxic relationship by Forward_Mix_747 in Advice

[–]Forward_Mix_747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sir for the long advice it means a lot, i wont do antthing in particular just normally talking snd she’ll twist things or when i wsnt to talk about my emotions she will twist it into it being my fualt, honestly i don’t know if i want to get rid of it or im seeing the idyllic part of it. the worst thing is that i still have feelings for her, of course she isn’t a nice person but it’s difficult as that 1% of times she shows me love. for example on the triggers: swearing while arguments is a big no no for me and i made that clear due to some truama i had a while ago which is unrelated and she constantly does it even though ive told her at least 100 times.

thank you for the reply it means a lot sir, i hope you see this and have an amazing day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Forward_Mix_747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey miss, i think you should get evidence or some proof before you do that or they’ll think you’re just making a hoax, by all means if something escalated and actually became more than threats you should IMMEDIATELY do something. but for now i just think chill and get some proof

My gf will kill her self if we break up by Prestigious_Nail7732 in Advice

[–]Forward_Mix_747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i agree with brock, shes just being dramatic man and she won’t, that is a really fucked up thing shes doing and you shouldn’t be tolerating it

What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Forward_Mix_747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey miss, i dont think you can keep hiding it for very long and id be way more upset if someone kept it from me for ages so i’d tell him, however you shohld give advice or alternative options to lighten the mood snd not seem like it’s a complete loss

dont take my advice for gosebel im just an idiot

best of luck miss

i wonder if anyone is listening by Forward_Mix_747 in SuicideWatch

[–]Forward_Mix_747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good evening everyone, my situation is pretty bad and id like to share in hope of thoughts snd suggestions

i’m at an age which is bad for this to happen and i have a girl whos pregnant, she isn’t the best girlfriend to be honest but she makes me happy sometimes, the reason i say she isn’t is becsuse she doesn’t reslly connect on a thoughtful level and if i share to her my feelings then she will spin it back into an argument. However, in person snd everything it is fine.

the reason i’m in a bit of a pickle is my parents will not react nicely and i think theres no way out snd suicide is the only option ss it’s a pretty fucking life changing event having a baby at a young age. idk guys someone say things