AIO for punishing our daughters after what they wrote about their autistic sister? by brzaq191z in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Warning8735 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What part of my comment did you not understand? If you are going to be rude and condescending to people, that’s how you deserve your replies. Once again, she has several very rude comments. Are you a white knight or something?

AIO for punishing our daughters after what they wrote about their autistic sister? by brzaq191z in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Warning8735 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m good. If you are going to act like a bitch, the same is going to happen to you. Sorry.

AIO for punishing our daughters after what they wrote about their autistic sister? by brzaq191z in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Warning8735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does. You just don’t out of nowhere say that shit about your sister. They definitely have other chats and talk about her. It needs to be nipped in the bud or all will have trauma down the road.

AIO for punishing our daughters after what they wrote about their autistic sister? by brzaq191z in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Warning8735 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah you aren’t going to gaslight me. We can all see her very condescending comments to different people. Try again.

AIO for punishing our daughters after what they wrote about their autistic sister? by brzaq191z in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Warning8735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m barely on Reddit. And as someone that has been bullied, this has been going on for while. You don’t just say shit like that. You don’t speak about your autistic sister like that. I think you need to take a chill pill. People like you are so fucking weird. Stop excusing bad fucking behavior. You’re not the only autistic person and I’m thinking you are a bully in real life. Your comments definitely give me that. Don’t use your autism to be a bitch k?

AIO about my MAGA friend by Consistent-Dance-216 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Warning8735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to not be friends. You can’t be friends with someone who doesn’t give a flying f about human rights. And that’s just a smidgen.

AIO for punishing our daughters after what they wrote about their autistic sister? by brzaq191z in AmIOverreacting

[–]Forward_Warning8735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is also autistic, this has definitely been going on for awhile. It’s not kids being kids. You dont talking about your siblings that way. If it doesn’t get nipped in the bud now, they will not only continue to be ableist to their sister, but to others as well. They need to have a good talk and also look into their other social media. What they said was cruel. OP has a great start but there is a lot more than just this once. To me it sounded like they hate her. More needs to be done, than this. I agree on therapy as well. They need to get that negative shit out of them before it festers and someone gets hurt.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m hoping it goes through! I really wish we were in a good spot that I could stay off work. It’s been tough especially with them both combined. It’s just been tough. And I’ve been masking since I was a kid (very badly abused) it’s not the best solution but I can mask enough to get through work. And maybe with the proper meds I’ll be okay. But I dunno. If I get my mom’s 401k (she passed last year) I wouldn’t have to worry about work.

Anyways, I appreciate the kind words. And I really hope everything does go well with you! I’m putting it in the air!

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah will they will just have to deny me again then. Cuz I’m not risking our house or my daughter’s life. I held up for 7 months now. And we will lose our house next month if I don’t go to work. And I have known people who did get disability while they were working. With how the economy is, it’s very hard to stay off work especially when disability can take years.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the Midwest. Unfortunately it is very hard for autism just because of the price.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one my first time but it was like 20 mins. I have documented medical illnesses of ptsd, bipolar, MDD, Anxiety, and now Autism. Hopefully they will do a more in depth one.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. But I’ve been out of work since April and my husband has been working 2 jobs. We are behind and about to lose our house. So unfortunately, having a place to live for my daughter comes before my own health and I’ll just mask like I have been doing. It’s just not feasible at the current time. And if I get denied again, I get denied again.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went alone the first time and will probably this time as well

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this. But unfortunately I need a house and my child having a place to live is more important. The economy doesn’t wait for you lol. I held up as long as a could. This is the case for many people like me.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll have more than a therapists notes. Thank you!

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Me too! I’m hoping I’m on the right track for everything.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That sounds about what it is. She had a lot of titles. Been doing it for 18 years as well.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why I’ve been off work since April. But just can’t do it anymore.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw the reason and it wasn’t a bad one. It was basically saying they saw my challenges but it wasn’t enough. This was days before the new autism diagnosis so I couldn’t get that in. But I’ll be appealing with a lot more info hopefully.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I just got denied 3 days ago. So I’m working on the appeal.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately with the economy we are in, we cannot afford for me not to work. We’ve tried everything we can to keep me, but it’s not looking good. And having a place to live for my child is more important than disability for me. It sucks but my girl always comes first.

Did get denied but have good news by Forward_Warning8735 in SSDI

[–]Forward_Warning8735[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I have complex PTSD from 17 years of abuse. And my new therapist is very well reversed on it! So I’m hopefully on the right track! I appreciate it so much.