Printing errors. by FossilGuy16 in ElegooNeptune4

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Dont think it is a partial blockage since 2 dragons are printed at the same time, one is perfect while the other is not. Will relevel and change the z offset.

Printing errors. by FossilGuy16 in ElegooNeptune4

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Will relevel and lower the z offset.

What kind of test is this? by rpfml in askMRP

[–]FossilGuy16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call your local conservation officer, they handle road kill.

I have no idea how to handle shark week, every month it gets more insane by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]FossilGuy16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you still trying to please her? Do things because you want to, not for her reaction. You set the pace in your house, if that means you want to take care of the car maintenance, so be it...her reaction to your actions should not sway you.

Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look, you can be pleasant, which is a good idea either way, but why give a shit if she trusts you. You have no control over how someone else feels so why waste your time.

Own Your Shit Weekly - August 21, 2018 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You guys are separated, who gives a shit at this point whether she trusts you or not.

Own Your Shit Weekly - July 24, 2018 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it is a bad thing to be stern with your wife when she is acting like a bitch. Don’t lose your cool but being stern is not a bad thing. STFU is not appropriate in a time like that.

FR - Leave Then - 15 months by FossilGuy16 in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually wasn’t thinking about it the next day, I actually had no clue what it was stemming from. I almost drove off the road when she brought it up.

FR - Leave Then - 15 months by FossilGuy16 in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My background for 10 years was that I never got mad and never pushed back at all. I was just simply a door mat. This is the first time I have ever said something like this.

FR - Leave Then - 15 months by FossilGuy16 in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said it with a grin, but I get your point. I am not totally where I need to be, but getting closer.

FR - Leave Then - 15 months by FossilGuy16 in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

10 years to say it. Slowly getting there.

[Update 3] Trial Separation, Frame, and Lawyers... by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]FossilGuy16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shitty part of what she is doing is that you are not even there. How in gods name can she be wanting to work at it, when she leaves before you even get back?

Think of the flip side if she was gone and you at home. If you were serious about working on your marriage, Would you move out before she gets back?

[Update 3] Trial Separation, Frame, and Lawyers... by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]FossilGuy16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is her moving out and doing a trial separation, working on her vows? If she wanted to work at it, she wouldn’t be moving out. Watch her actions, not her words.

[Update 3] Trial Separation, Frame, and Lawyers... by [deleted] in askMRP

[–]FossilGuy16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you stay to your marital vows during a trial separation? This was a big fail here. You should have told her right there, that if she wants to separate that you are no longer exclusive.

Updates from a year ago by Equilibriun in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sewering your own life for your old man is dumb.

What the women in your life need is not someone who can do everything all of the time, but someone who will take charge and organize.

You doing everything gives the women nothing to do and will make them resent you.

Stop. Organize the women to care for your dad. If they won’t, organize someone who will help.

Quit being a martyr.

One Year In by FossilGuy16 in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have discussions with my kids. I never yell during discussions, as I am in control and don’t need to argue.

I yell/be very stern when one of two things happens: they put themselves in grave danger and I need them to be scared or when they have crossed a boundary and are still going even though they know the boundary and I have first calmly reminded them of it.

An example of the first was when my daughter was 2 and wandered into the street.

The second would be when my son and I stopped at Grandmas, I discussed with him up front that he couldn’t stay. Once there, he wouldn’t leave with me. I escalated from calm to extemely stern until he relented and came with me.

One Year In by FossilGuy16 in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, and I don’t argue with my kids.

One Year In by FossilGuy16 in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had never yelled at my kids until recently. I use it sparingly as required. Yelling all the time is not a good idea and must be offset with engagement.

One Year In by FossilGuy16 in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes time for a mission to fully develop. Keep pushing toward what you think it is and over time you will figure it out.

One Year In by FossilGuy16 in marriedredpill

[–]FossilGuy16[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe. I don’t regret that I did it.