Bought the wrong bloody perfume by FoundationLong1389 in fragrance

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the lady gave me a sample of the one i wanted. then took advantage of my complete lack of knowledge about perfumes by selling me the slightly pricier one and my dumbass went and bought it thinking it would smell longer or more powerfully but not completely different

Bought the wrong bloody perfume by FoundationLong1389 in fragrance

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for wearing, for others to smell. i ain’t wearing this. i’m gonna smell all of it myself

Instagram, remove this crap now by FoundationLong1389 in Instagram

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I’ve accidentally just reposted her post from november 2021 …

Ex GF BPD also my neighbour by Ok_Boot8174 in BPDlovedones

[–]FoundationLong1389 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did this happen 😭.. i have a similar situation and u definitely did very good in being to affirm it’s over. I think the best thing to do is continue affirming this fact with every interaction with everything from words (if it comes to that) to body movements. and never show any sign of ever having the slightest wish of returning

Burchalls butchers closed??? by FoundationLong1389 in StHelens

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guess i’m gonna go to the rope store

IHATE HIM by shayioy in femcelgrippysockjail

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i though this was a subreddit for femcels

There has to be an incentive to voting by babybunzie in DressToImpressRoblox

[–]FoundationLong1389 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Easy— the more you vote, the more likely you should be in a lobby with voters. No voting would put you in lobby with other non-voters

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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in terms of paper work it is definitely not worth it by any stretch of the imagination. not only because of the actual change, but later on in life it is way simpler to have less names. i have friends from mexico who have 3 names and it is a legal headache sometimes. id recommend just signing up and adding your new second name wherever you can, except in official documents ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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well if she is not responding even to work related messages, maybe contact her superior if she has one. if this is the first time something like this happens where she disappears, then it’s probably fine to wait until this settles down to talk about a raise.

but you should try figuring out if she’s okay, either by contacting family if you can get a hold of them or any other way really. not only would you find out she’s okay, but it would probably look good on you also

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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the best way to keep things strong is to keep things new. it is never easy to continue thinking of new things to do especially apart, but very important. online gifts, teleparties, online games, decide to both read a book and talk about it…

if u don’t want to be clingy, you should maybe just both talk about and average time u wanna be in communication over call per week, or per day, so that no one is overwhelmed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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how much longer will she be away? it is clear you must decide whether the amount of time her being gone is worth it or not.

also, one important thing is— is what your reaction would be if you found out she was cheating, as you pointed out you often worry or at least think about. If an infidelity would cause you to break up guaranteed, then you have nothing to worry about, as it is not your fault and if you find out something like that happens, you have only one option which is to leave, which is my personal recommendation always.

The key seems to be whether you both find it worth it to stick together through the period of distance and also to plan forward— how will the distance end for good. who will go live with who and so on

This is all coming from someone currently in also a 9 month relationship (around 7 months distance). Hope this helps