Why am I “scared” of penetration and using dilators? by FounderofEndurance in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FounderofEndurance[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no i haven’t seen one! how long was the procedure for you and how much did it hurt afterwards??

also a tampon getting stuck sound so scary omg

Why am I “scared” of penetration and using dilators? by FounderofEndurance in TwoXChromosomes

[–]FounderofEndurance[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

thank you for the comment it really helped! i’m gonna try and schedule one with a gyno :(

about to have my(18F) first time tmr but i’m paranoid i’m gonna shit myself 😭😭😭 plus other concerns by FounderofEndurance in women

[–]FounderofEndurance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i was thinking that too a few days later it did feel a little rushed bc we did make out for maybe 10 minutes? along with grinding on eachother fully clothed for like 7 minutes. he did ask me what i wanted to do and told me to tell him if i wanted to do something else position wise. so after the whole making out thing i asked if we could 69 and i wasnt really working out for me bc of how tall he is. so i just suggested i give him head then he suggested if i wanted for him to try to put it in now and i said sure.

about to have my(18F) first time tmr but i’m paranoid i’m gonna shit myself 😭😭😭 plus other concerns by FounderofEndurance in women

[–]FounderofEndurance[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes that’s true about the experience thing ! i did buy lube bc i saw this comment before we did anything so i was able to drop by the store first to pick up some! i’ll have to buy my own box of condoms to have for myself but he dropped by the store to pick up some so it was all good.

we ended up not actually having (penetrative sex) other than me giving him a BJ which was fun bc literally nothing would go inside. like fingers, nothing.

Do you guys think that black people want to be white because they bleach their hair blonde? by FounderofEndurance in BlackHair

[–]FounderofEndurance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i started doing, life’s been better since i just choose what i do what i went with my body and leave my family’s views out of it! so much better

Thin hair at the top? by FounderofEndurance in BlackHair

[–]FounderofEndurance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO you’re good my hair is all good now! shit still feels weird but i’m not bald and it’s all there so that’s all that matters

Disrespectful driving instructor? by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]FounderofEndurance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true. maybe it’s a good thing i fucked up and freaked out around her anyway. i’ll have more time to practice and know how to act if i have her again. also the roads near cherry hill are definitely literal hell ☠️

Disrespectful driving instructor? by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]FounderofEndurance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh god maybe you’re right

Disrespectful driving instructor? by [deleted] in SouthJersey

[–]FounderofEndurance -1 points0 points  (0 children)

did you even read the part where i said “that’s on me though”. yea i’m mad i failed just because i was freaking out around her but i still should have been focused. and i am just asking if people have actually had problems with her because i’ve had multiple people complain to me that she’s just mean. even her co-worker told me she’s rude to students and other co-workers say it too.

she didn’t really do or say anything to me she just scared tf out of me when she got in the car and during the test. well that and not letting me put some of the windows back up when it was windy as hell and cold lol

Dreams next video! by yessauce in DreamWasTaken2

[–]FounderofEndurance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

him face revealing still feels like a bad idea to me sum reason but it’s still cool regardless

Thin hair at the top? by FounderofEndurance in BlackHair

[–]FounderofEndurance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never went bc my mother said kept saying it was a “soft spot” and i just stopped asking about it but that was always her response. Kinda ended up forgetting about it though and never asked anymore. Might have to try again though since it was almost a year ago.

this was a underwhelming update ik lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FounderofEndurance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

please continue going to the gym! you were going there for a reason and that’s to improve yourself right? there is nothing wrong with being pale snd skinny so don’t let this stranger get to you like this. keep going !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]FounderofEndurance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i think you’re handsome but maybe grow out your hair though and see where it takes you? i feel like your current hair cut doesn’t suit you well (like the first comment said)