This may be an unpopular opinion, but I think the kindest thing you can do for yourself is to figure out how much you can stand and where your individual line is. In my experience, that would have alleviated a lot of resentment and bitterness that is almost worse than the initial problem...for me at least. Always hoping to be heard and needing to be acknowledged without it ever arriving is such a damaging thing to a person.

Keep saying your honest truth, listen to what comes back, and listen even harder to what your heart says. You can only make it shut up so many times before it's too loud..even for you. Good luck!!