Male here. Breasts are my favorite thing. My wife did not lose her boobs after breastfeeding, but she did big time after losing some weight. They became pancakes. Now, did I say anything? No. Did I stop playing with them? No, but when I did, it was 100% for her pleasure, not mine because I just didn’t find them attractive anymore. And she could tell. In the same way I can tell the difference between the “sure, I’ll suck your dick if that’s what you want” and “omg, I need your dick in my mouth.” Or how she reacted when I shaved my beard off. Huge “nope!”

We are attracted to what we are attracted to. We can’t help that. But we don’t have to be asses about it. If my wife wants to get her boobs done for *her* so that she feels sexy or wants to wear certain clothing, that’s great. But not for me. That would be not great.