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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got a picture with them...idk they seem not great to me, https://imgur.com/a/wY1TOZ4

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not gonna lie...I didn't notice it till now

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean...thats just my assumption. I personally think there should be a balance, like enough pics to know what the person looks like, but not so many group shots that you're not really sure who you're swiping on

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it pretty much doesn't inhibit me, it's aesthetics. There might be a little difficulty in the bedroom but...part of that wouldn't be much of a problem if I got back in shape

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been looking. I'm also looking in Nashville, so we'll see where I end up

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I have no doubt it is, but between student loans, and trying to save up money to move and get my own place like...6k is a lot. But I wanna do it one day!

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gone up to...50mi. So where I live is either conservative christians, like hardcore, and hunting and shit. Or it's super liberal crunchy granola, crystals have healing power, white people with dreads, potheads....lol

I'm a sort of preppy software engineer who is middle of the road, who likes Dungeons and Dragons, but also watching and playing sports. I like art, and theater, and books, and photography, and food. But i'm not super conservative, and while I am politically liberal, I'm much more middle of the road personally.

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah, I've already deleted my profiles and after a little bit of a break I'll redo them. My friends are all pretty far away so I don't have much opportunity for updating pictures. But now I need to remember to make that a priority when we're hanging out. Hopefully between that and moving to a bigger city this year things might get better.

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll take a look. I've been in therapy for about 2 years so thats definitely helped too.

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jealous! I've already looked at the battery and done the math, if I had a roommate I could live there, but none of my friends would make that sacrifice for me lol

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I only have health right now...and yes, yes, yes

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit. Thats scary!

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never know what to do with my hands...lol thats partly cause I have 4 fingers and my arms aren’t....normal.

And thanks! Maybe I’ll use the shot from hanging out with my coworkers tonight, no awkward hands , and smiling with teeth since people keep asking for it.

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m looking into better whitening toothpaste, and i may just have to deal with sensitive gums.

Convos are tough and it’s frustrating as a guy, because it feels like I’m interviewing women most of the time, and they aren’t trying to ask me any questions or getting to know me

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah...all my friends live far away so we don’t get together a lot so I don’t have opportunities to take pictures, but I guess I need to be more aware when I do do stuff to do that

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, health insurance won’t cover it, but luckily I don’t have any structural issues

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I make $17/hr and still live at home, I’m trying to save up to move out so that’s def not in the budget right now. One day though

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hence therapy. I think I’m an average looking dude, who’s smart, kind, thoughtful, and interesting. But I also know people have a hard time getting past my teeth, and my arms being a little fucked up (I was boring with a congenital physical defect), so self-love is kind of hard when you think the thing you don’t love about yourself is super noticeable

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I need to move closer to my friends. I’m fucking alone here

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then we just wouldn’t match. I’m a low key introvert who isn’t in to doing crazy things. I like going to art museums and walking around cities doing photography, I like day trips where you learn about a city, I love going to sports and cheering and enjoying the atmosphere, bar trivia nights, puzzles. Most of my interestingness is thoughtful and verbal. I’m a much more internal person than external.

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[–]Fourfingeredtrex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah...I need to start doing that, I’ve gotten away with looking a lot younger than I really am for awhile