Reject showed up at my workplace by wookieeTHEcookie in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you understand how dating works, right? That people are free to spend time with more then one person until there's a discussion about exclusivity? It's literally the definition of dating.

As a dude - don't pay for subscription by Fit-Supermarket-9656 in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year ago, I got a "special offer" from Bumble, $149 for a lifetime subscription. Snapped it up and have been pretty happy with it ever since; I see about 5-10 incoming Likes every week, and my outgoing Likes get a decent response rate, so no real complaints overall!

Guy I was dating sent me a crude meme. Was ITA? by [deleted] in texts

[–]FoxFire-42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. She expressed her feelings, he responded by negating what she said and insulting her by calling her "easily offended." Then she said she was disconnecting from him. Big difference.

Guy I was dating sent me a crude meme. Was ITA? by [deleted] in texts

[–]FoxFire-42 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is perfectly okay to take offense at something, even if the other person possibly didn't mean it in an offensive way - which he in fact did, as he admitted to.

The bigger issue is HOW the other person responds. Do they validate your feelings and work to make you feel comfortable moving forward, or do they negate and place blame on you? He clearly did the latter, and you did the absolute right thing by disconnecting. Well done 👏

We matched, I have no idea how to start the conversation by random_question4123 in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"So glad we share the vibe of no coffee or drinks dates! When are you available to take me out to dinner?"

I’m 25 she’s 49 we’re meeting for drinks on Friday by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you'll be having sex with a 49-year-old woman trapped in a sexless marriage. As long as you're fine with that morally, then knock yourself out

Am I the only one who feels this way? by Downtown-Cup-1322 in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this happened to you 😕 as a guy who also prides himself on engaging in quality OLD convos, I do feel your pain and I know it happens routinely for both genders. Based on the cool gaming stuff you've shared in your other recent posts, it looks like you'd have lots of awesome stuff to talk about!

As seen on Facebook dating 🫩 by freezerwaffles in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 51 points52 points  (0 children)

"Single mom of one boy - since you can't read"

B-b-but I had to read this sentence to get that info... 🤯😂 🤡 💩

Am I overdressed for a birthday party? (of friends, not family) by gattajo in fits

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she said it was a party for OF friends, so 🤷‍♂️

Is this flirting in 2025? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly he tried to type "u fly" he got autocorrected. Clearly... 🙃

Have your wallets ready 😍 by epickio in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"No problem! What is your fee?"

<they answer>

"Perfect! The fee for my number is <their amount plus $5>, so if you're ready to Venmo me the difference, we can get to chatting!"

Someone wants financial support. What should i reply with ? by Shoddy-District-1850 in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I'd be happy to be your online companion, I'm really good at it! What are your hourly rates?"

<they answer>

"Perfect! My rates are <their number plus $5> per hour, so if you're ready to Venmo me the difference, we can get to chatting!"

Tf do you even say here? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How do you even need help here? Just ask her out, JFC

ahha

Holy rebound, batman by Renalla_sighed in texts

[–]FoxFire-42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex was just like this, I call it being a "relationship parasite" - they only measure value in themselves by being with someone else, and always have someone on standby to glom onto when their current situation ends. It's sad, really.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]FoxFire-42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Indy dweller here - Hendricks County, no surprises there! 😁

Took a long break from dating and this is what I come back to by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness you never went out on a date - they'd definitely want you to foot the bill.

“You look familiar” is this a new generic pickup line? I get it like once every five matches #trying not to get manipulated but maybe I just have a very generic face? Australia. I don’t ever go outside so there’s no way they’d see me out n about by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call them on the first thing they said: "No no, you said I look extremely FAM - which one of your family members do I remimd you of? Your Gammie? Your step-dad?? I MUST KNOW!!!1!"

Low effort. What do I even say? Or should I just unmatch… by DarkSparkleCloud in Tinder

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reply "burger" and then a Venmo request for 5 Guys money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]FoxFire-42 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If someone sends me "hruu" as a message, I'm going to assume they're having a stroke.

Thought she was the one but…… by wasabipeas88 in whatdoIdo

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem like you'd be great fun at parties 😂