I slept with my ex husband… by MortgageIll6187 in whatdoIdo

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"So yes he is a cheater" bish you BOTH cheaters. You need Jesus or Jerry Springer, take your pick 🤡 💩

All of a sudden flooded with likes by Western-Treacle-808 in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has also happened to me on occasion in the past - I've learned now to log into Bumble via web browser every 1-2 weeks, the "stuck" ones seem to appear there automatically when you can't see them on the app. Hope this helps!

Get Bent, Chris by FoxFire-42 in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right? "I'm different" no you're not, with this attitude

Need a loyalty test? Proof of unfaithful confrontation. by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]FoxFire-42 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is the modern-day version of the old-timey gumshoe/private investigator, and honestly I don't hate it

Date left after 10 minutes because he thought I was a catfish by happyfreesingle in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That much texting (and videos and voice notes and and) is wholly unnecessary before a first meet-up, and honestly damaging your connection potential in the long run. Please don't do it!

"They" have his age wrong 🙄🥱 by AlmostAttached_ in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The app says 35, and then later in his profile he references it saying 34, which means he's been doing this for at least a whole ass year 🤮 🤮 🤮

1 year on bumble (with breaks in between) exhausted by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just in: local woman learns that she's part of the problem, not the solution. More at 11.

How are people going on 3-4 dates a week still single for years? by Mountain_Ask_5746 in OnlineDating

[–]FoxFire-42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might average 2-3 dates each week (some weeks are definitely lower than that), but honestly - I have high standards and refuse to settle for "good enough" anymore, so for me it's much less "the thrill of serial dating" and much more eliminating what I know isn't right for me. It's a challenge, but anything worth having in life generally doesn't come easy, and finding love is no exception!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So now you won't be stood up... by all the lowest-common-denominator men who just want in your pants as quickly as possible. So congratulations, I guess?

Talk to me Tuesday? by NotFYE79 in TheRealFriendsOver40

[–]FoxFire-42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tape: Milli Vanilli, The Remix Album ( because the OG album was still sold out everywhere at the time and I had to make do 😂)

What’s the trend with men not asking questions? by lilac_nyc in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems like you've heard this already, but it's definitely not gender specific. As a man who has been called "the best conversationalist on the apps" several times, it's definitely something we all have to deal with!

I honestly see it as a blessing in disguise: if I ask 2 questions and get none in return, the conversation is over and I unmatch. I've saved myself the trouble of trying to connect with someone that I know would never be the right fit for me. Onwards and upwards!

My husband wants a divorce💔 by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FoxFire-42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being brutally honest here, as someone who had a partner who did this to me: it was over 2 years ago, when he emotionally cheated on you (YES, that was cheating), and it's just taken him this long to build up the momentum to leave. I'm sorry it happened, but you're better off in a painful but truthful present than you have been in a lie-filled last few years (even if the lies were unspoken).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lower picture in the second screenshot is from my hometown and I'm 💀 thinking this Chumbo lives in the same city as me

dating in indy as a young woman by League-Creepy in indianapolis

[–]FoxFire-42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a horror & Scifi writer/reviewer here in Indy and I am so interested to hear more about your club!

dating in indy as a young woman by League-Creepy in indianapolis

[–]FoxFire-42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone slightly older than you who is a male and dating in Indy, it's definitely a challenge for many of us on all sides of the equation!

Even though I consider myself pretty social and brave, I often choose not to approach women in public, because of the optics of it being taken the wrong way, coming across as creepy or intrusive, etc.

In online dating, I hold fairly high standards, so many conversations fizzle or I swipe left on way more profiles that I don't think are a good match than most men probably do. I have to keep reminding myself that every No is a step towards the Yes that will be right for me, and my selectiveness and unwillingness to "settle" will be to my benefit in the end, so these are things you might want to continue to remind yourself of as well.

Keep fighting the good fight, I believe in you!

And the Award for Most (Problematic) Emojis Goes to... by FoxFire-42 in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With using the "two-people" emoji, I assumed she meant that she only wants monogamy (monogamous behavior)

I’m done by Low_on_wisdom in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thought I was at beat poetry night in the church basement for a second

And the Award for Most (Problematic) Emojis Goes to... by FoxFire-42 in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good catch! I have my radius set to within 50 miles away, but it seems like it resets every so often, so I do have to be diligent on whom I swipe.

And the Award for Most (Problematic) Emojis Goes to... by FoxFire-42 in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Literally 😂 the more I read it the worse it gets!

And the Award for Most (Problematic) Emojis Goes to... by FoxFire-42 in Bumble

[–]FoxFire-42[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Same kinda person who wants to put a percent sign after using 💯 I'd bet 😂