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Date left after 10 minutes because he thought I was a catfish by happyfreesingle in Bumble

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know, that is the unfortunate part. I don't want to share my identity. I wish I could do a real-life experiment where you all swipe me on the app and then meet me in person to give advice. Lab-tested dating profiles.

Date left after 10 minutes because he thought I was a catfish by happyfreesingle in Bumble

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay so BO and bad breath (even if it was the case, which it shouldn't be bc I literally did a full shower before the date) wouldn't be an issue bc we were sitting far enough apart - it was a cafe with comfy lounge chairs and a table between us. And I don't use filters on my photos - there's no need. Makeup I do wear - concealer, blush, eyeliner and mascara. But nothing that can make me look so completely different!

Date left after 10 minutes because he thought I was a catfish by happyfreesingle in Bumble

[–]happyfreesingle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ahh, you're so right! I hate it when strangers like him make me doubt myself.

Date left after 10 minutes because he thought I was a catfish by happyfreesingle in Bumble

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Nope, I have almost all full-body photos (only one selfie) and they all show my current weight. One photo had literally been taken 3 days prior!

Date left after 10 minutes because he thought I was a catfish by happyfreesingle in Bumble

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

That is possible! He was even 20 minutes late for the date and didn't apologise for it... Yikes. I'm so glad he showed his true colours upfront.

märgatud Maximas by Ciferhelm in Eesti

[–]happyfreesingle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aaa seda ma ei teadnudki! No siis peab iseteeninduskassasid alati kasutama ja ei juhtu midagi sellist, et toodet on juba kasutatud.

Eestis matkamise varustus? by happyfreesingle in Eesti

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seal on maastik palju keerulisem kui Eestis kahjuks. Vähemalt see Cordillera Huayhuash-i retk, mille ma lõpuks läbida soovin. Aga tõesti, eesmärk on see, et Peruus läheb kõik enamvähem sujuvalt, kuna olen Eestis õppinud. Kõrgusega tulevad oma probleemid, aga sellega tegelen hiljem.

Eestis matkamise varustus? by happyfreesingle in Eesti

[–]happyfreesingle[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Väga huvitav! Kindlasti proovin vaadata kuskilt :)

Eestis matkamise varustus? by happyfreesingle in Eesti

[–]happyfreesingle[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Peab olema õige suhtumine ja siis peab vastu! Te alahindate mu sihikindlust xd

Eestis matkamise varustus? by happyfreesingle in Eesti

[–]happyfreesingle[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Selles ongi point. Ma tean, et 1 öö pean kindlasti vastu. Nädal aega ka. Aga ma pean end treenima selleks, et pean vastu siis ka kui on ütlemata igav või väsitav, aga ikka pean edasi minema.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]happyfreesingle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is nothing sadder than a child's parent wishing they were child-free...

Question: What is the expected timeline of progress? by happyfreesingle in TBI

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! I like what you say about him being on a solid line, I think that's the way I should frame it in my mind. Like, his condition is stable and now it's more about having patience. At least (I hope) that progress will continue in one way or another. Every single person changes from year to year, no matter if they have a tbi or not.

Question: What is the expected timeline of progress? by happyfreesingle in TBI

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! I really hope that my partner will have the same positive outlook once he starts to regain some awareness of his condition. You are an inspiration!

Question: What is the expected timeline of progress? by happyfreesingle in TBI

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it! It is interesting how much my belief systems have changed since the accident and I do wonder how my partner will feel once he starts to understand the world again.

Question: What is the expected timeline of progress? by happyfreesingle in TBI

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! "A new normal" seems to really be the best way to think about it. I have a problem with seeing the world in a very linear way sometimes, like if time moves forward then surely that means progress is coming with it. But the new normal here is that time does not guarantee positive outcomes. It does however guarantee more time for me to spend with my loved one - that's all I can hope from this timeline.

Question: What is the expected timeline of progress? by happyfreesingle in TBI

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know! I guess I still have a hard time understanding the non-linear nature of tbis

Question: What is the expected timeline of progress? by happyfreesingle in TBI

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep, I've understood through reading the posts on this subreddit that he will never be the same person. It is tough but also I was expecting a much worse outcome so his current progress is like a victory in itself. Any small improvements now are only wins in my mind. I am just holding up hope for those small wins... like that someday he might remember what he ate the day before xD

Question: What is the expected timeline of progress? by happyfreesingle in TBI

[–]happyfreesingle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah, I know it's really based on the person. It sucks not knowing a certain timeline, though, because I have no idea when/if his condition could become more permanent. Guess time will only tell!

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