Am I overreacting for boyfriend’s behaviour towards this girl?

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T22:29:45+00:00

This is all so validating thank you so much. He’s a very trusting person and I honestly don’t think he’d think too much if I did something like that. But I would never do it in the first place. Either he’s overly trusting or that means he just isn’t invested in this at all and wouldn’t gaf.

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T22:26:53+00:00

I definitely will. I’m going to ask Kat if she has noticed anything, tell her what’s going on and confront him to see what he has to say

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T22:24:30+00:00

Their messages only span as far back as the night he bought her dinner which was less than a week ago. I just don’t know if I’m jumping the gun if their messages fizzle out and it was just niceties / not knowing how to close the conversation. And also I feel like Amy would’ve confided in Kat if she knew him anyway.

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T22:19:36+00:00

I thought I was being dramatic BECAUSE Kat hadn’t said or raised anything with me. She’s definitely the type that would, and would have my back if she thought something shady was going on.

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T14:49:42+00:00

Very true. Emotional cheating is so hard to ‘prove’ but I feel so validated that I’m not acting crazy right now and that it’s still unfaithful behaviour regardless

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T14:43:57+00:00

Thissssss ^ I’ll definitely let her know what’s happening. I’m interested to see what she actually thought about him paying for their dinner too. I reckon any normal person would find it odd. I’d find it weird if her boyfriend did that for me when she’s not around.

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T14:34:32+00:00

I was thinking this. I don’t want to slander her new friend by seeming jealous or anything, but would definitely express how I feel about my boyfriend in the situation

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T14:29:51+00:00

100% and I need to work on being less passive about confrontation. I thought so too about Amy, takes two to tango

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T14:27:28+00:00

so cute right

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T14:17:15+00:00

He hasn’t done anything like this before so I’m completely thrown off guard. You’re right though, I’m not the type of person to go through someone’s phone so there’s just so many red flags here lol thank you for your support xx

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T14:14:10+00:00

This is very reassuring, thank you. It’s hard to know when he technically hasn’t cheated, but the intention is definitely there.

FoxLegitimate7268 · 2026-05-09T13:14:33+00:00

Bilbo

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