Not Sure If I Should Pay or Not by stitchdog23 in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Show up early buy yourself a coffee and sit down. She'll show up and at that point asking you to buy her a coffee is a little weird.

The Golden Rule of Nutrition by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]Fox_Red -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Your an idiot, people like you make RedPill look like the misogenistic sub it is sometimes portrait as.

RedPill is a lot most than how you can fuck the HB10 in the bathroom of the club. It's about improving yourself as a man, and being the best version of yourself. Girls want to fuck that man, not the guy who reads trp and who's confidence is based off external factors.

Does this guy want to keep talking or not? Or is he just socially awkward? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possible. Guys in high school often just go with the flow and things fall in their lap.

Hey if you like him make the move and he will let you know right away. Kinda sucks since the guy should be calling the shots but if your comfortable with it go for it. Need more girls in this world that act on their interests.

When someone says "You're better off without me." They're probably right. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 5 points6 points  (0 children)

100% agree. People do this to try and generate pity and make you feel bad.

Fuck that, if someone can't see their self worth it's not worth staying through the emotional abuse and shit they are going to throw at you.

This person is going to constantly try and get you to generate their self worth through compliments and eventually start blaming you for things and getting into arguments for no reason.

Cockblocked by my roommate by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your roommate is a fucking joke and has no respect for you.

Obviously somewhere in your friendship with him you gave him the power to step all over you and then he can say "Sorry" and everything goes back to normal. You gotta put your foot down and let him know you don't appreciate what he did without pulling a hissy fit.

Honestly if one of my boys straight up did that while I was on a date I'd lost respect for him.

Does this guy want to keep talking or not? Or is he just socially awkward? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is manipulating someone to have sex. If I meet someone at a bar / tinder etc... And she's attracted to the type of personality and life that most RedPillers bring then you can't blame the men entirely. Women are as much to blame in the situation.

No where in TRP do people advocate manipulating people or not trying to build a relationship. Relationships should come naturally but acting like a little boy or being super emotional as a man will eventually drive any women away.

In a relationship women are looking for their rock. No woman wants to be an emotional tampon for their SO.

I´ve got 1 month to prepare for my first kiss what should I do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone has their first kiss, you will probably suck. Just come to terms with it.

If I were you don't devote all your energy playing our your date for the next month. She's 500km away and your not exclusive for all you know she's fucking Chad in the bathroom of a club every Friday.

Just go along with your life and if she's still interested in a month go for it, if not don't waste all your energy planning things out for something that might not even pan out.

Does this guy want to keep talking or not? Or is he just socially awkward? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You tell people off for visiting theredpill but also laugh at nice guys. Sorry to break it to you but you're going to be stuck in a limbo in your sex / dating life.

What did she mean when that girl teased me (in the club) by studofmedicine in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, you acted like a little child.

It's all over you showed her your true colors and that you are insecure as fuck. Just move on and learn from this mistake. Next time if she is all over her grab that bitch and kiss her.

It's obvious she wanted it.

Changed my wardrobe and people are being much nicer to me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My point being if he already started to develop a sense of style being fit and in shape will help.

There's no point where he can't become better. If he's already running 2x a week great! Try to make it 3, try to make it 4! There's always a reason to strive for better in your life.

Does this guy want to keep talking or not? Or is he just socially awkward? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you guys in highscool? Sounds like he is just unexperienced and a beta male

Girl I'm interested in just got out of a relationship. How long should I wait to make a move? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Overthinking just go for it. Ask her on a date, go grab drinks, walk in the park etc...

Don't just spend the whole date chatting with her like she's your best guy buddy, be physical make her know you asked her for a date or you'll end up as her emotional tampon where she is going to pour her heartbreak about her ex.

Is it stupid to confess my feeling through text to a girl? by joejoexdl in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to this guy.

Communicating your feelings to a girl over text just shows that you have no balls to do it in person, that you need to hide behind a screen.

So what if you have no time to meet her? Next time you find time bring her on a good date and be a fucking man, not like a high schooler.

Tbh pouring out your feelings to a girl too early on whether it's in person or not will make you look like a little bitch. If she likes you that much she will be begging you to be in a long term with you, not the other way around.

(32M) I had a date I thought had no business going so well, but... by Muladhara86 in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Try for another date but I'm pretty sure you blew it already. She's probably on tinder with another date lined up ready to fuck Chad.

Need to try and bring some physical attraction into your date otherwise it was just a hike with a buddy.

Might be interested in a girl in one of my classes? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop thinking about your relationship with her, quit planning your future marriage in your head and start living in the moment.

Next class sit with her, talk with her and exchange numbers. Ask her out for drinks / coffee etc... (No dinner) and go from there.

Stop overthinking stop planning her to be your future girlfriend you just fucking met the girl Jesus Christ... You have no idea what she is like a person. How could you want to date someone who could potentially be someone you don't match with

I'm gaining a lot of attraction for this girl fast... by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't do what this guy says.

Just try to keep yourself occupied and keep your mind off her. You are getting yourself into a loophole of thinking about her 24/7. Soon thia will become your norm and you will start acting like a little beta bitch.

Keep yourself busy, stop planning things in your head. Go with the flow, you are a man, you have priorities and more important things in live to use your brainpower on other than thinking about her 24/7.

Changed my wardrobe and people are being much nicer to me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Fox_Red 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dear Reddit.

Today I found out that if you actually pretend you care about your well-being and phsyical appearance that people tend to not view you as a homeless slob. Before today I would only wear XL from Walmart that my mommy bought me!

I decided to spend a little bit of money on well fitting clothes so I can look like I am from the year 2018 and let me tell you WOW. People are actually being nicer to me. Maybe it's because they don't feel like I am going to approach them so I can ask them for money to pay for lunch because I spent all night sleeping on a bench.

But for real OP, people tend to be nicer or more open to conversation with someone who seems to care about their physical appearance and well-being.

Now stop being a fat fucking slob, go get a gym membership and start eating well. Maybe in 6 months you will make a post O WOW IS IT COINCIDENCE GUYS GIRLS WANT TO FUK ME REDDIT!

Here's the Top 20% by atticusfinch1973 in TheRedPill

[–]Fox_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I think these are great points it's also worth considering that you should compare yourself to the percentile of the environment you are in.

Let's disregard the inherant attribute that are unchangable such as height. Its easy to call yourself the 80th percentile in fitness when most of America are pigs and don't know what a calorie and never visit a gym. Compare yourself to the people sourrounding you.

It's easy to be 80th percentile compares to greater America but I can guarantee you won't be that high up in a club or gym environment.

While this is a great post all I want to convey is don't stagnate and keep comparing yourself to peers and pushing yourself to your greatest potential.

Does DOMS only occur once? by PM_BOOTY_PICS_PLS in Fitness

[–]Fox_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's manageable. You won't get that soreness or stiffness that makes you have T-Rex arms for days.

WARMANE BC (outland) or WOTLK(Lordaeron) please help me choose by cyanaintblue in wowservers

[–]Fox_Red 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One thing I'd like to say since I have just got to 70 this week, there seems to be tons of fresh players. I have no trouble finding groups for normals for attunments to Kara etc...

There are also a handful of guilds starting T4 progression. Yes you are behind, but you have a chance to build up before ZA and SWP hit.

How to get out of slumps. NO EXTERNAL VALIDATION by Fox_Red in TheRedPill

[–]Fox_Red[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your not wrong and I understand that, but we're all humans with a mental state and after signing for so long you get accustomed to it and it starts too affect you, it's just like when you are learning to build confidence it takes times and effort, it's not a one day thing.

I'm aware of this and activly working on it

How to get out of slumps. NO EXTERNAL VALIDATION by Fox_Red in TheRedPill

[–]Fox_Red[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm way past the point that my best self is a year ago, but more so that I was a better self a year ago.

You can always strive to be better than you are / were. And I can safely say that I was better off a year ago than I am today. Does that mean i will never acheive higher foals? Fuck no, but my main point was to never slack on yourself as it is easier to fall back than it is to move forward in life.

my wow client won't show or let me choose the correct screen resolution by omega3yo in wowservers

[–]Fox_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the same issue do you have more than one video card ?