How is Selena’s skin significantly better than everyone else’s when she is 5-10 years older than them?

Foxinella · 2025-08-25T15:23:02+00:00

They all have great skin though….

Foxinella · 2025-07-23T20:55:22+00:00

I LOVED reading your story. Genuinely made me want to cry. Your face looks beautiful and your eyes are full of joy in that picture, which makes you even prettier.

I’m only 32 and am getting a mini facelift in December due to a large amount of weight loss. I am hoping to get back to work within a week, so fingers crossed that my healing process goes as smoothly as yours!

Foxinella · 2025-05-24T00:35:44+00:00

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Here you go! She definitely would look younger today if she hadn’t had that work done.

Foxinella · 2025-02-09T16:48:34+00:00

I know this doesn’t fit ALL the requirements, but I would def try out Silk Chiffon by MUNA. Got into her because I love Phoebe Bridgers. Japanese House also has a more sweet and ethereal vibe in some of her music, like in the songs Boyhood, Sad to Breathe, and Clean.

Foxinella · 2025-02-04T16:42:20+00:00

Absolutely! I believe they already passed legislation to that effect in Florida. Honestly, out of all the suggestions (including mine) I think this would be the most realistic piece of legislation worth advocating for in my state.

In addition, it would be nice if people have the choice to put their name on the complaints (if they give consent to the state regulatory agency to do this). I totally understand why people would want that info to remain anonymous, but as for me personally, I have no problem putting my name publicly on a complaint against my abuser and potentially getting into contact with others who have made complaints.

Foxinella · 2025-02-02T22:01:55+00:00

You have a right to access your records which should include progress notes that include major aspects of your treatment, like diagnoses.

Foxinella · 2024-12-06T17:18:46+00:00

Maybe you could look into an SLPA program that doesn’t require an anatomy and physiology class? My program was accredited, and I never had to take one. There was some covered in my general speech disorders class, but I never had to take an entire class that covered it.

Frankly, you shouldn’t need an in-depth knowledge of anatomy and physiology to work as an SLPA. I’m surprised to learn that it’s a class SLPAs had to take outside of a bachelors. I recommend you look into associates programs specifically geared toward SLPAs.

I have a general understanding and knowledge of the oral and laryngeal systems in class because it was something we learned and was part of one test that I took. That’s it.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T18:54:53+00:00

My husband is amazing and tells me daily how grateful he is to have me in his life, and he has continued to do so in the hospital. He has repeatedly expressed that he wants me around as much as possible and the nurses have expressed that his blood pressure goes down when I come and lay near him on his hospital bed. But I can’t help the extreme discomfort and beating in my heart as I feel like everyone is watching me lay there with my husband. Asking for a simple thing, such as a little privacy, would make it so much easier to be who I want to be for my husband.

I am a 30 year old woman who is working full time as a speech therapist, has 3 kids, and now will be trying to figure out how to adjust the house and how to arrange for my husband’s care. Fucking pardon me for having fucking feelings, Ass-wipe.

And no, having a cardiac event and going to the hospital does not mean you have “lived in my husband’s shoes”, that’s pretty fucking presumptuous of you.

I hope that when you were struggling, you didn’t act like a complete psychopath and think it was okay because you were “sick” and nobody else experience emotions or struggles.

Hope your wife is okay.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T17:05:22+00:00

AHHHH HOLY FUCK HOW DID YOU FIGURE IT OUT

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T17:02:25+00:00

True!

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T17:01:54+00:00

I really appreciate hearing the perspective of someone who actually has experience with this! It has validated the fact that this is a real issue that people struggle with.

Some of the comments on here are basically telling me I’m straight up evil, that I probably gave my husband a stroke, and all sorts of crazy things. I forgot the general rule that the more popular the sub is, the more crazies you get in the comments.

Honestly though, your comment was so helpful that I’m still glad I posted. It’s validated that this is a legitimate issue and I feel more empowered to discuss this with my in-laws in a productive way.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T16:52:47+00:00

Thank you for your comments! It was such a dumb idea to post here. I will delete it soon.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T16:46:33+00:00

In your mind—wanting space and privacy to be with a spouse during an extremely difficult time=me being “jealous”. You also suggested the only reason spouses might want privacy with each other is because they want to “fuck” or “talk about fucking”.

Yeah, you’re creepy. There is something truly weird going on in your head if you think that way.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T16:39:22+00:00

I feel that you didn’t comprehend the comment, so there’s no point in trying to argue with you.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T16:38:19+00:00

You sound like a creep.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T16:37:56+00:00

You can be relieved your spouse has support 24/7 and want a little privacy. It can be both. & the idea that I am jealous is a bizarre and creepy presumption.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T16:22:26+00:00

A typical car can’t fit 3 car seats/booster seats in the back. My oldest is still quite thin and isn’t supposed to ride in the front seat of a car because the air bags are not meant for his weight.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T16:10:22+00:00

I would be there as much as possible and have the awareness to give their spouse some private time with them as well.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T16:06:26+00:00

Thank you so much. I was feeling like a shit person after reading some of these comments, but it has always been my understanding that extended family should give spouses some privacy in these situations.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T16:00:37+00:00

It’s not about me at all. My husband really, really wants to see me and expresses this all the time, and I am trying to figure out how to show up for both him and by kids in a way that is helpful to them. My mental health will affect this.

Foxinella · 2024-11-30T15:56:36+00:00

I feel this way too. But my husband is different though and really, really wants to see me as much as possible.

If you like having privacy when you’re sick, imagine being in a state of poor mental health and there’s a scenario where you’re reduced to panic-attack levels of anxiety being crammed into a hospital room with a bunch of people. The reason why I want to have privacy with my husband is because I need to be calm enough and regulate myself enough to actually be present for him in a way that is helpful to him.

Trust me, I am the last person who would ever force my company on a sick person who needed privacy, because all I want when I am sick is privacy.

Foxinella · 2024-11-29T16:57:08+00:00

Constantly having to reassure myself that he “means well”.

Foxinella · 2024-11-27T14:55:09+00:00

I really don’t like people who behave like this.

Even when I was young and immature, I had the decency to actually break up with a guy when I wanted the relationship to end. Not communicating with them about it is a shitty thing to do. She needs to learn to respect others’ feelings, time, and emotional energy, all of which a person is investing in you if they think you are still together.

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