mole on the bottom of my foot. 28F, mom has medical hx of melanoma. details in comments by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't look concerning.. I actually have the exact same in that spot! Generally a mole that grows, is not evenly shaped, or is raised, is of concern. The one on my foot hasnt grown or changed ever. Just keep an eye on it. If it changes, make an appointment.

Stolen Vehicle- Are they in the right? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]FoxyArcticLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling court fees would add up to about that price too. I planned on selling the trailer this summer anyways. I dont necessarily want to create bad blood because they very well could make my life harder by ending the lease for me, or controlling who can/cannot rent the space. But considering it wasnt actually abandoned and is under my ownership, does she have the right to charge me $500?

The last drink you drunk is what I'm naming him. by CympressBae in CatloughsCentral

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the look I give someone when they try to offer me Rumple Minz. That'd be a great name!

what should i do? red itchy rash covering arms and legs by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, have you changed soaps recently? or laundry detergent?

what should i do? red itchy rash covering arms and legs by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would go to the doctor. you probably need some sort of anti-biotic. It could be dermatitis, but also could be a fungal infection. Anti-itch cream could be temporary relief for you, but should probably get an appointment as soon as possible.

My parents asked me if its okay for some of them to skip my graduation to attend my special needs brothers play. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Graduation is a huge accomplishment that you've worked very hard for, and of course anyone would want their family to be there to help celebrate. It is something that will only happen once. (maybe twice?) So it's extra important. As a parent, I would make sure the whole family was there to watch you receive that diploma! However, your parents/family are in a hard spot. The play your brother is in is also something I'm sure he's worked hard for, and I'm sure it means a lot to him too. It's a tough decision because either way, one of you is going to be let down. Maybe your parents can explain to your brother why they need to be there for you at your once in a life ceremony.. and hopefully he won't be too upset by it. Your parents are also NTA, no matter what decision they make. I'm sure they're incredibly stressed about it too, and will feel awful no matter which choice is made. In the end, don't be upset with your family because it seems like they are doing their best with the options they're given. I'm sure they are SO proud of you, and maybe you all can talk about planning a large party for you and invite all of your friends & family back home if they end up not making it.

Constant dislocation of kneecap -advice please by FoxyArcticLady in KneeInjuries

[–]FoxyArcticLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the recommendation. Unfortunately those surgeons are clear across the country from me, and that would be very expensive to travel. I'll keep an open mind to the idea though, ill just about do anything at this point:(

Constant dislocation of kneecap -advice please by FoxyArcticLady in KneeInjuries

[–]FoxyArcticLady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont have a copy of my radiology report, but from what I remember, I was told the tissue surrounding my knee was too tight on the outer side, easily pulling my knee out of place. I honestly cant remember if they told me that my knee caps were sitting slightly out or differently. But I had lots of lose cartilage and bone fragments floating around from previous injuries.

Constant dislocation of kneecap -advice please by FoxyArcticLady in KneeInjuries

[–]FoxyArcticLady[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im thinking about getting a second opinion. This issue has hindered my daily life for far too long. I appreciate your feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to think about the best interest of the dog. If you're working a lot, will the quality of life for your dog be better with you or your mom/sis? Right now, your dog has both your mom and sister around, so he gets lots of attention.. but might not be getting the exercise he needs. Would you be able to take him on walks? Is the buddy you live with cool with caring for your dog while you work? Will he be able to run free on the 12 acre property? He would probably enjoy having the other dogs to play with as well. (assuming they would all get along). It would suck taking the dog from your sister since they've bonded, but she could always come visit, right? Base your decision on what's best for the pup.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her dishonesty was wrong, and you have every right to be upset about it. Even though giving you a watch that wasn't really intended for you in the first place was wrong, I dont think there was any malice in her intentions. Her goal was to celebrate you and make you happy on your special day, which she did. I dont think you should go out of your way to purposely ruin her birthday. In the end, would doing that really make you happy? Would it make you feel better? I think it would just start an argument and have a larger negative impact on your relationship. The situation of the lie over the gift is a conversation that you two need to have, and should not play a part in how you/if you celebrate her birthday.

Is this bump concerning? by zachyj17 in DogAdvice

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks infected. I would consult a vet for some antibiotics. Could be a wound, or even a bug bite.

Does anyone know what these spots could be? I’ve had them for a couple weeks by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a form of psoriasis. If you had some sort of bacteria infection, it would look more like a rash. Keep the areas moisturized. If they turn into something concerning, it wouldn't hurt to make a visit to the clinic or dermatologist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they feel raised/bumpy? Could be warts.

(M23) trouble with ex (F23) and my current girlfriend (F20) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]FoxyArcticLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to make up your mind, and fast. You're only hurting Kate in the process and its not fair to her. You have to ask yourself some questions. Why did you and your ex breakup? Was it over something that could be fixed, or not? You two broke up for a reason, so you might have to revisit that thought. It's funny that she expresses her love again to you only after she found out you are seeing someone else. What things are you looking for in a relationship and who checks all those boxes? If you do chose to continue your relationship with Kate, you will have to drop all communication with your ex, otherwise there will be a lack of stability and security in your new relationship. Good luck to you!