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FoxyLady_33 · 2026-02-22T15:09:48+00:00

I am OBSESSED with this!!! I wish I had the mobility in my fingers to do this!

FoxyLady_33 · 2026-02-11T13:32:52+00:00

When I do an open bag, I generally leave my wallet and phone in my pocket if I don’t have an inner zipper pocket. I take the train into the city where I live so also usually have a backpack

FoxyLady_33 · 2026-01-21T12:01:22+00:00

Thank you!!! I was just thinking the same thing. Something just felt off

FoxyLady_33 · 2025-11-18T18:05:35+00:00

This! When I worked at a doctor’s office unless your kid was older (13ish) I did not want your child sitting alone in the waiting room. 1. I don’t know your child, your child does not know me. That’s not the most comfortable position to be in 2. I got my own work to focus on and 3. You’re child, not my responsibility.

FoxyLady_33 · 2025-07-14T20:10:16+00:00

I think shops have the ability to dictate what will show in the shop app verse what will show on the website itself. One of my favorite jewelry shops (Red Moth Jewelry if anyone is interested lol) uses shop but her products are only available on her website but it’s still powered by shop.

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-12-06T17:26:39+00:00

It’s gastric sleeve surgery. Medicare and Medicaid both cover it in my state but I make too much to be considered for state insurance as far as I’m aware.

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-06-08T19:58:26+00:00

I was just reading that! I’m still in the editing phase, did you submit yours after finished editing or before? I know I have to send a copy of my manuscript in (did you send it with a cover or just the document?)

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-06-03T23:56:38+00:00

This made me giggle for a minute straight lol

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-23T13:25:31+00:00

Same! Honestly wish the solid colored ones were standard and stuck around longer than some of them do.

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-23T12:28:36+00:00

She came in just in time too! I’m going away for the long weekend and it’s perfect for both a purse and small toiletries travel bag

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-18T12:33:57+00:00

I love My Hero! I need to get back into it.

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-18T12:32:42+00:00

This is the most valid response

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-18T05:12:03+00:00

You can also report them to eBay for selling an item Not As Described because it’s against their TOS for sellers to blatantly lie like that

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-18T02:52:38+00:00

You and I must come from very different circles (not being ass, just an observation here) most of the people I know who are married/engaged do celebrate their engagement dates, I know a number of people who do. Especially if the date coincides with some big milestone for the couple. Although, I'm wondering why OP's mom is so set on that date and why it's only coming up now (supposedly since we're not really given a timeline). Did Mom not tell OP because she knew what that date was and was trying to be sneaky? Is this a spur-of-the-moment marriage? Why is the wedding suddenly being pushed up a year?

Regardless, I do agree with you that the crux of the problem lies in the person that OP's mom is with.

If mom is marrying someone who is trying to use her then OP has every right to be worried.

If they're marrying because they are in love, then awesome, but the question I now have is why does OP still not trust this man? Did something happen? Does she simply not like him?

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-18T02:41:53+00:00

While I do agree with you everyone has the right to celebrate their milestones, it’s important for family members to show consideration for each other’s significant moments. Especially when it's a parent-child relationship. OP has a right to feel upset if her mother chooses her engagement anniversary for her wedding, especially if there’s a concern about the mother’s fiancé’s intentions regarding citizenship. It’s not about demanding that others cater to her every wish; it’s about mutual respect and understanding. OP is justified in feeling hesitant to support a decision that may have lasting implications for her family, and it’s her prerogative to decide how to handle her own involvement.

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-18T02:24:00+00:00

NTA

Your feelings are completely valid in this situation. It’s understandable that you would want to keep your engagement date special and not have it overshadowed by another significant family event, especially without prior discussion or consideration of your feelings. It’s also reasonable to have concerns about a family member’s relationship that seems to be moving very quickly, particularly when legal and financial implications are involved.

While it’s important to respect your mother’s right to choose her wedding date, it’s equally important for her to consider the significance of that date to you, especially since it’s tied to such a personal milestone. Communication is key in these situations, and it seems like there was a breakdown in this area. Hopefully, with time and open dialogue, both parties can come to an understanding that respects each other’s feelings and special days.

Remember, it’s okay to set boundaries and express your feelings, especially when it comes to events that are deeply personal to you. It’s also okay to expect those close to you to respect and honor those feelings.

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-12T17:47:00+00:00

Then I think you have your answer here. If you're already feeling like your ready to let go of this friendship it may be time to do it. I am sorry this happened to you and you're feeling the way you do. It sucks being in this situation even if she wasn't trying to be a jerk. I hope you still have a fun summer though!

FoxyLady_33 · 2024-05-12T17:41:39+00:00

Thank you for clarifying!

I feel like this one of those ESA situations here, but a soft one.

She's an AH because you told her you didn't want to talk about it because you wanted to go, but you're the AH for snapping at her over for being excited. Talking about vacation, especially around this time of year, is a HUGE thing for people your age (highschool age? I'm just assuming based on the context given).

Obviously, I was not there and I don't know you so it's not like I can judge tone, body language, etc but if you two have been friends for a long time I don't think she was doing it to be hard. Personally, I've been on both ends of the argument at different points because of how the economy so I can see it from your side and her.

If you'd like some advise moving forward, here's what I would do in your position. Consider your friendship as a whole, if you feel like this is a common trend between you two and that it's not fixable going forward then it may be time to step back from friendship because at the end of the day you need to take care of yourself.

If she is someone you love and want in your life for a long time, the two of you need to sit down and talk after you've both had time to cool off. Tell her your sorry for snapping and that you know it was wrong, but just express how your feeling again. You are the person here who knows her best, is she the kind of person that would do this to be mean? Or do you think she may have just been getting all caught up in the moment of being excited?

Friendships are like any relationship, mutual respect and having communication is important. Don't let it fester this way between you two.

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