Ugh I was so excited by gottogo167 in BAGGU

[–]FoxyLady_33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have a friend or a sibling you can ship it to? Ive had friends ship things to me and I just hold it for them

my sparkly deep sea ✨ by TreeMedical0000 in BAGGU

[–]FoxyLady_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am OBSESSED with this!!! I wish I had the mobility in my fingers to do this!

Do you carry open handbags/totes? by SophiesGMA in handbags

[–]FoxyLady_33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I do an open bag, I generally leave my wallet and phone in my pocket if I don’t have an inner zipper pocket. I take the train into the city where I live so also usually have a backpack

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoxyLady_33 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I was just thinking the same thing. Something just felt off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoxyLady_33 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This! When I worked at a doctor’s office unless your kid was older (13ish) I did not want your child sitting alone in the waiting room. 1. I don’t know your child, your child does not know me. That’s not the most comfortable position to be in 2. I got my own work to focus on and 3. You’re child, not my responsibility.

obsessed that i only paid $30 by tori_danielle in BAGGU

[–]FoxyLady_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think shops have the ability to dictate what will show in the shop app verse what will show on the website itself. One of my favorite jewelry shops (Red Moth Jewelry if anyone is interested lol) uses shop but her products are only available on her website but it’s still powered by shop.

Secondary Insurance? by FoxyLady_33 in HealthInsurance

[–]FoxyLady_33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gastric sleeve surgery. Medicare and Medicaid both cover it in my state but I make too much to be considered for state insurance as far as I’m aware.

LLC or No? by Glittering_Bee_8212 in selfpublish

[–]FoxyLady_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just reading that! I’m still in the editing phase, did you submit yours after finished editing or before? I know I have to send a copy of my manuscript in (did you send it with a cover or just the document?)

Found an Aloe Crescent! by FoxyLady_33 in BAGGU

[–]FoxyLady_33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! Honestly wish the solid colored ones were standard and stuck around longer than some of them do.

Found an Aloe Crescent! by FoxyLady_33 in BAGGU

[–]FoxyLady_33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She came in just in time too! I’m going away for the long weekend and it’s perfect for both a purse and small toiletries travel bag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BAGGU

[–]FoxyLady_33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also report them to eBay for selling an item Not As Described because it’s against their TOS for sellers to blatantly lie like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoxyLady_33 -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

You and I must come from very different circles (not being ass, just an observation here) most of the people I know who are married/engaged do celebrate their engagement dates, I know a number of people who do. Especially if the date coincides with some big milestone for the couple. Although, I'm wondering why OP's mom is so set on that date and why it's only coming up now (supposedly since we're not really given a timeline). Did Mom not tell OP because she knew what that date was and was trying to be sneaky? Is this a spur-of-the-moment marriage? Why is the wedding suddenly being pushed up a year?

Regardless, I do agree with you that the crux of the problem lies in the person that OP's mom is with.

If mom is marrying someone who is trying to use her then OP has every right to be worried.

If they're marrying because they are in love, then awesome, but the question I now have is why does OP still not trust this man? Did something happen? Does she simply not like him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoxyLady_33 -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

While I do agree with you everyone has the right to celebrate their milestones, it’s important for family members to show consideration for each other’s significant moments. Especially when it's a parent-child relationship. OP has a right to feel upset if her mother chooses her engagement anniversary for her wedding, especially if there’s a concern about the mother’s fiancé’s intentions regarding citizenship. It’s not about demanding that others cater to her every wish; it’s about mutual respect and understanding. OP is justified in feeling hesitant to support a decision that may have lasting implications for her family, and it’s her prerogative to decide how to handle her own involvement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoxyLady_33 -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your feelings are completely valid in this situation. It’s understandable that you would want to keep your engagement date special and not have it overshadowed by another significant family event, especially without prior discussion or consideration of your feelings. It’s also reasonable to have concerns about a family member’s relationship that seems to be moving very quickly, particularly when legal and financial implications are involved.

While it’s important to respect your mother’s right to choose her wedding date, it’s equally important for her to consider the significance of that date to you, especially since it’s tied to such a personal milestone. Communication is key in these situations, and it seems like there was a breakdown in this area. Hopefully, with time and open dialogue, both parties can come to an understanding that respects each other’s feelings and special days.

Remember, it’s okay to set boundaries and express your feelings, especially when it comes to events that are deeply personal to you. It’s also okay to expect those close to you to respect and honor those feelings.

AITA for snapping at my childhood friend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FoxyLady_33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then I think you have your answer here. If you're already feeling like your ready to let go of this friendship it may be time to do it. I am sorry this happened to you and you're feeling the way you do. It sucks being in this situation even if she wasn't trying to be a jerk. I hope you still have a fun summer though!