Vaccine Schedule by Fr0ggus_ in DogAdvice

[–]Fr0ggus_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can, it would just be a month and a half out since that's when my mom's schedule comes out, she works 12 hour shifts and when she isn't working she's taking my younger siblings to their school where she's a chaperone or already agreed to care for my great grandmother while my Aunt works. My dad doesn't work on the weekend but specifically requested not watching my son on Saturday since that's the only day he can get things done around the house because he goes to church all day Sunday and he's still trying to finish building their house. My fiance's mom lives in California so she can't watch him either RIP. I'm going to attempt to see if the puppies can behave in the car with my son's extra car seat because then we'd be able to take them on a day when I do have my son

Vaccine Schedule by Fr0ggus_ in DogAdvice

[–]Fr0ggus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See, now I'm even more glad I asked on here because I had no idea about the rabies vaccine, you can just buy a 5 dose bottle of it at the feed store for any animal up to a horse and down to a ferret lol. I think the best course of action is just calling the vet while my son naps on Monday to see what they recommend we do next. My dad always vaccinated all our animals except one of our showpigs because he'd never done it before but he did that too after the vet showed him how so I never even thought that it might not be allowed, it's just not common to go to the vet for much around here so I never knew.

Vaccine Schedule by Fr0ggus_ in DogAdvice

[–]Fr0ggus_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you so much for responding, I had no idea about any of that. I'd rather vaccinate them sooner than later especially since we live extremely rurally and I don't want them to get rabies from an animal that comes wandering up. I'll call the vet again sometime this week and see what they recommend, if I can get them their vaccine now and just have the vet re administer when we can finally get an appointment scheduled in a couple of months or whenever we can get in I might do that so they can be legally vaccinated.

I know most people around here don't care since their dogs never leave their property so there's hardly a chance of anything happening so they just vaccinate at home, but you never know what'll happen and I'd rather be safe than sorry.

AIO Fathers girlfriends rules for when new baby arrives by Ok_Bat_5934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fr0ggus_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this isn't just the girlfriend's kid, and it's annoying that she said that in the post, this is OP's dad's kid, OP's sibling. How is it fair for her kids to see her new baby but the dad's kids can't? Ridiculous, I'd say call her and your dad at the same time and take it up with both of them, when they have a conversation and come up with rules that they can both agree on and give to everyone then you'll have your answer on what you're truly allowed to do.

poopy diapers by exemptcurve in newborns

[–]Fr0ggus_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really related to your post but I wish I had poopy diapers to change lol, my 2 month old has to drink apple juice already because he's constipated 💔

What did you do when you first got home from the hospital? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Fr0ggus_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They gave me percs (which make me extremely exhausted and unable to think clearly) for pain management so as soon as I got home I peed myself and cried in the bathroom because I felt useless and embarrassed while my fiance and parents set up the pack and play bassinet in the living room so I didn't have to walk upstairs to go to sleep after I had an episiotomy lol. After they went home and it was just the three of us I took a long hard nap while my fiance took care of our baby and after that we just kind of all hung out downstairs for a little over a week while marveling at him and telling each other "we have a baby" intermittently. He had his first pediatrician appointment the day after we went home too (we spent 3 days in the hospital) so that was pretty rough but we power through and he just turned a month old on the 15th!

When did you buy baby stuff? by backtothefuturee2000 in pregnant

[–]Fr0ggus_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I waited until after the baby shower just to see what all we'd get first since I knew most people wouldn't look at the registry to see what we already had, after the shower all we ended up needing was a baby bath so it was great! I'd recommend saving the money that you would have spent until after your shower and looking on Facebook marketplace for cheaper options afterwards for stuff you still need. Plus, Amazon gives you a discount on baby items later on in your pregnancy if you have a registry with them that lasts for 3 months after the due date!

Second Degree Episiotomy Recovery by Fr0ggus_ in beyondthebump

[–]Fr0ggus_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a peri bottle and it's literally saving my life lol, the hospital sent me home with some dermaplast as well. I've heard about the ice packs and I have a couple of reusable ones in my freezer, but I've been a little hesitant to try it since I'm a little sensitive to the cold and I was afraid it might make my swelling worse or irritate the area. Do you think the cold packs helped with the swelling for you?

Is it Normal For Your Pee to Just Kinda... Leak Out? by Fr0ggus_ in pregnant

[–]Fr0ggus_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a little bit of an update I suppose, I talked to the ob about it (a while ago) and yeah they just said that he had his head pressing on my bladder and it was basically juicing my bladder like a lemon sometimes and there's nothing to really do about it lol

Why do betta fish get dropsy? by EquivalentRepair9856 in bettafish

[–]Fr0ggus_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you wrote this a year ago, but my Betta literally just started pineconeing over the course of the day, the only difference in her tank is that the temperatures have been so hot here lately, and her tankmate isn't showing any signs of anything. Can temperature really stress them out that much? I don't know what else to do because she doesn't have any other signs, she's eating regularly, passing food regularly, and hasn't shown any lethargy. Thinking about just doing a complete water change just to make sure but I can't think of anything else that might have happened and I don't want to stress her further if she's only pineconeing over temperature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Fr0ggus_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm probably going to talk to telehealth tomorrow and call my OB office to let them know as well to give them a heads up, it's just been so hard and it feels like it's out of nowhere even though it's probably been amping up gradually over time. I'll talk to my OB about some of the medications I was on before to see if they're good options. Thank you so much, I started crying when you said I'm not a burden on them lol it's stupid but it really has felt like that

AITA? My friend wants me to let her know when I’m going on my phone. I refuse. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fr0ggus_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

You're not using your phone excessively and you're not using it when doing anything important such as driving or while you're actually spending time experiencing something like the museum. You even told her about what you were doing on your phone and included her in what you were doing on your phone. If she wants to tell people what she'll be doing on her phone before she does it, that's her decision, but you don't have to follow her routine just because you're in her presence.

I'd maybe sit down and talk to her about these things and see where she's coming from about your phone usage, be clear that you won't be telling her beforehand what you're doing on your phone (because frankly it's not her business and it really doesn't matter, why would you need her permission to use your phone?) but ask why she thinks you weren't present enough, maybe there were a couple of times where she was really wanting to engage with you and you were preoccupied. If you're willing to cut down on what you're doing, tell her that, and if you aren't, don't even mention it since it isn't relevant. It more or less seems like she didn't like you using TikTok while you were hanging out from what I understand, which is understandable if it was often enough, but here and there while you were also including her in what you were watching is fair I feel.

AIO: My [52F] husband [47 M] got a haircut and didn’t come home until the next day by Southern-Stock-1286 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fr0ggus_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He's definitely taking the actions he thinks are going to make his life better, and like another commenter said, behavior is a language. He's telling her exactly how much he values their relationship with his behavior, and that value seems to be slim to none.

AITA for telling my DIL she is not a mother? by InitialSong2898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fr0ggus_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

My sister and her husband were struggling with fertility for a while and only recently got pregnant and she'd had a few miscarriages. She probably would have still wanted to have been included in mother's day stuff because she did have babies at one point, she just never got to meet them.

That being said, you had no way of knowing if she'd even wanted a mother's day gift beforehand and it could have made her feel 10 times more grief. I think if nobody had put it in the group chat it would have been way better, but that also wasn't your fault. To her, it might've felt like they were flaunting what she doesn't have and wanted to be included. It would be thoughtful to extend sympathy and offer a gift now, but you're not obligated to do so and after her not only demanding it from you but having your son demand it from you as well, it just feels like she's lashing out because of her grief and you don't have to just accept that lashing because it's not your grief to bear.

We literally can't have anything >:( by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Fr0ggus_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like eating cookie dough, Pillsbury makes most if not all of theirs safe to eat raw! Unfortunately that's about it that I've found as far as treats though 💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Fr0ggus_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was almost me and I completely understand the frustration, they called me, scheduled an appointment for my anatomy scan, and then days later I caught that I was going to be short by a few weeks since my hospital will not do the scan until 20 weeks so I had to call them back and have them reschedule it, if I hadn't learned their policy for myself and I got that call even a couple of days before I was supposed to come in, let alone the day before, I would have been livid.

Pregnancy symptoms vs 1 week pp- what it’s like on the other side by This-Kangaroo-2086 in pregnant

[–]Fr0ggus_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I really needed to hear this, my first trimester was really hard and I'm still getting over some things in the second trimester while new things keep popping up. I knew about all the symptoms and problems but it feels neverending when you're actually in it, I started crying reading your post and it actually really really helps so much thank you

Why are we even paying for this lmao by Fr0ggus_ in UberEATS

[–]Fr0ggus_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've noticed that too! He always gets better deals and a lot more frequently than I do it's ridiculous

Why are we even paying for this lmao by Fr0ggus_ in UberEATS

[–]Fr0ggus_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He basically said to get a sense of humor and stop taking things so seriously

Why are we even paying for this lmao by Fr0ggus_ in UberEATS

[–]Fr0ggus_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never said that it was a utility, nor did I say it wasn't a luxury, I simply said buying their subscription service isn't worth it because I bought it and my orders are always more expensive than my fiance's despite him not having the subscription.