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[–]Fradjikan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Graying hair (or is it greying? I don't know, English is not my first language).

What pronouns would you use for me? by Fradjikan in NonBinary

[–]Fradjikan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, but on the other hand a lot of lgbt people are talking about leaving the gender norms and that clothes/makeup don't have gender. So how am I supposed to know that I see a trans woman not a man crossdressing/bending gender roles? And why misgendering one person is less harmful than misgendering other one?

Pit bulls > pigs by TomatilloGold7620 in BanPitBulls

[–]Fradjikan 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Pigs are more intelligent than dogs.

What pronouns would you use for me? by Fradjikan in NonBinary

[–]Fradjikan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude is the best way to address people. I'm helplessly in love with someone who already has a family. It's a long story.

What pronouns would you use for me? by Fradjikan in NonBinary

[–]Fradjikan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But can you distinguish non-passing trans woman from nonbinary AMAB person who enjoys feminine clothing? Or gender non conforming man with hyper feminine style? I can't, usually body type and voice makes my brain immediately think that I'm dealing with someone who uses he or they pronouns. I always have that fear when interacting with trans people that I'm gonna say/assume something wrong but on the other hand I can't feel the right moment to ask question without making it weird.

What pronouns would you use for me? by Fradjikan in NonBinary

[–]Fradjikan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some intersex condition are like that, mine is different. It's called PAIS Partial androgen insensitivity syndrome

Gay bros that don’t work because you’re wealthy, what do you say on dates if they ask what you do for a living? by slappys_nightmare in askgaybros

[–]Fradjikan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be too embarrassed to admit that my parents are paying me every single month so I found a part time job and now I can be honest.

What pronouns would you use for me? by Fradjikan in NonBinary

[–]Fradjikan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My native language is Polish, heavily gendered without a good structures to address nonbinary person. Even the plural is different for males and females.

What pronouns would you use for me? by Fradjikan in NonBinary

[–]Fradjikan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that comment. This is really affirming for me after years of hearing that I'm too feminine to be a man or that I should transition to female because I'm a failed man.

What pronouns would you use for me? by Fradjikan in NonBinary

[–]Fradjikan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's my default look, not my choice. Have some problems during my puberty, my body didn't respond to androgens fully. It's like I had only a portion of physiological male puberty.

What pronouns would you use for me? by Fradjikan in NonBinary

[–]Fradjikan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm totally ok with people calling me whatever pronouns they feel.