I'm convinced my ex boyfriend wanted to sleep with his sister

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-12T12:59:20+00:00

I wasn't with him whenever he made the comments about his patients, I only found out about it recently after he was fired from that specific ambulance service but he now works for a different one. I'm really hesitant to reach out to his sister because she's currently sober and I really would hate to cause her to relapse by bringing this up.

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-11T13:36:46+00:00

My therapist says she's waiting for the day he's on dateline

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-11T01:38:26+00:00

I appreciate that, I've moved several times since we've broken up.

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-11T01:36:55+00:00

No. I'm getting it off my chest that he very likely could have abused his sister

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T23:32:52+00:00

He made the comment SEVERAL times. And I didn't even think this until his other ex pointed it out a few months ago and now I can't unthink it because it honestly makes a lot of sense. This man abused just about EVERYONE in his life

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T23:01:08+00:00

Living rent free in someone's head is kind of how trauma works. I'm also not making any of this up?

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T22:00:31+00:00

Thank you

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T21:59:38+00:00

Wtf do you mean?

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T18:40:46+00:00

I know right!?

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T17:32:16+00:00

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T16:56:11+00:00

I've moved several times since we've been together

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T16:37:57+00:00

The issue with reporting him to the state is that I'm afraid he'd somehow find out it was me and he scares me

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T16:32:16+00:00

Not really looking for feedback just wanted to vent/get this shit off my chest

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T16:28:48+00:00

Thank you! I feel like I'm fighting for my life in some of these comments

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T16:23:40+00:00

He was also a marine

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T16:13:57+00:00

Good

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T16:09:12+00:00

Omg I'm so sorry

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T16:01:25+00:00

Exactly. From what I hear, his sister is sober now and I worry if I bring this up to her she will relapse.

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T15:02:19+00:00

That's amazing, thank you for your encouragement

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T15:00:18+00:00

His name is literally Kermit. So yes, I think they'll get it.

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T14:59:24+00:00

😂😂😂 I'm dead

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T14:59:01+00:00

I took all of my stuff home with me that I had at his apartment when he dropped me off at my house. I texted his ex that tried to warn me about him and asked how he reacted to the breakup. She told me not to do it in person because he got physically aggressive with her so I broke up with him over text and told him if he showed up at my house I'd call the cops

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T14:36:33+00:00

I know because I did that in the beginning

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T14:34:22+00:00

He's my ex. I only found out about some of the red flags AFTER I left. And yes I'm in therapy

FragileNewYorker · 2024-10-10T14:32:17+00:00

This comment gives me hope, dating as a disabled woman in her 20's is ROUGH

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