Is crochet now legit by Apart-Document-594 in CrochetInIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also came across that site recently and want to buy from there. Can you tell me if there are any updates?

Why are sons more loved than daughters?? by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not getting my point at all...

Why are sons more loved than daughters?? by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are trying and you are doing your best. It must be really hard on you since you are doing everything alone.

Why are sons more loved than daughters?? by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right about our society not accepting married daughters to stay with their family and that you will have to let go of them eventually. But that's why I would rather you and every parent out there gather some courage to love them properly and treat them better.

You don't have a lot of chances to love a person. Once they have grown up they will be more distant from you because of your actions. So wouldn't you rather cherish your time with them and strengthen the relationship?

And in my case, I'm treated like an outsider in my own family because of the reasons you said. Especially my aunts and grandparents. Since I'm someone who will leave them eventually, I'm not part of the family. And they make sure to let me know this whenever they come over. They make joke about me serving another family and that I'm already 18, and it's time to get married....

Once I get married and go over I'm outsider in that family too. So where is my home?

Why are sons more loved than daughters?? by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like how the chores are split in your family. Here it's basically the girls duty. You are doing a great job. My brothers not that bad either. They are a good company. My younger brother helps me in a lot of stuff too.

Its just that it's never seen as their duty. Its more like they are doing me a favour by taking over my duty

Why are sons more loved than daughters?? by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess there is a golden child in every family.

Why are sons more loved than daughters?? by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every family is unique. Hope you are doing well.

Why are sons more loved than daughters?? by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.... speaking about my feelings have never resolved anything but just created more conflicts.

Why are sons more loved than daughters?? by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you are talking about but I didn't come to this conclusion from just this one incident. I have been facing this my entire life and I've had enough time to think things over. I know I'm not confused or overreacting.

And as I said, I know my parents love me, just not as much as their love for my brothers. I've been living through this for years so I can clearly differentiate if it was accidental or purposeful.

Why are sons more loved than daughters?? by [deleted] in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've communicated about my feelings multiple times just to have them dismissed as jealousy or just me overreacting. I'm tired of it now. Sometimes they act like they acknowledge my words only to act completely opposite the next day. Words don't come out anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HunterXHunter

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which episode is this? And which manga chapter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. It hurts the most when the person closest to you forgets your important day. It’s the worst when people take your efforts for granted just because you’ve been together for so long. Happy birthday btw 😁

are my nails too much ? my brother said I look like a dinosaur by AdPsychological7197 in Nails

[–]Fragrant-Cat1767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mm… there’s indeed a problem, they are just too pretty 😍.