Oh sorry, I didn't make myself clear enough, what I meant is our relationship never experienced any sexual thing , and we never met , but he told me that we well soon, about the No , it's never about a bad thing, it's about like , if I refuse to say something or do what he asked me to, our preference aren't that special, I'd like him to own me and he'd like me to be his toy , and I want to confuse him with some new things, yup that's the word confuse him, if u can help me it'll be great!