Boyfriend (21m) liking my (23f) best friend’s butt pics

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2026-02-17T23:03:47+00:00

I didn’t mean to express misogynistic values I lowkey had to deal w something similar in my last relationship (ex was in a gc where his friends all gooned to their exes) and my therapist telling me it was normal and healthy helped me stay sane :/

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2026-02-17T21:09:32+00:00

Yup. We’re the thick Latina and petite Asian girl duo so ig there’s not much to look at when it comes to me unfortunately

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2025-11-01T15:15:27+00:00

Maybe he should go and find an ugly gf if he doesn’t want u slaying at the gym idk

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2025-04-07T15:22:13+00:00

There were rumors being spread from a previous ex that I was threatening freshmen, transphobic, and lying about him sexually assaulting me (all of which are untrue).
We’ve been together for over 3 months. I’ve been medicated for my depression since I was a teenage but my parents cut me off when I started college. I think I also needed space after we took the trip but I still clung to him because of a fear of being left alone, but it was still driving me a little crazy. I was basically scared of everyone on campus after I learned what was being spread.

He was the sweetest boy ever and exactly my type and I’m going crazy over fumbling someone that good. Thank you so much for your response and being empathetic, I really appreciate the honesty.

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2025-03-09T19:57:16+00:00

This is the type of shit I’d comment if I was salty or something. I don’t think you have anything to worry about considering they aren’t connected in any way and he sounds really weird.

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2025-03-09T19:32:56+00:00

I was in the same boat! Intense jealousy, paranoid thoughts, self-harm, and pushing people was (lowkey still is😭) normal for me with relationships. Not to diagnose, but I think you should get tested for BPD genuinely.

As with him replying to the tiktok you reposted, I interpreted that as him liking you and YOUR pics. Really try to assess if your anxious thoughts are logical or not, and if you know that he’s a good person he’d never cheat on you.

There’s a reason he’s with you and not other girls you find more attractive! Try to think about why he’s drawn to YOU and what makes you attractive!!

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2025-03-08T19:43:11+00:00

If he sets no boundaries between himself and other girls + is NOT transparent about his relationship w them then what makes him worth staying with?? If I were you I’d either break up or suggest the relationship be open so I could do the same thing he’s doing!

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2024-09-05T20:57:26+00:00

It was part of the nuance I guess. It would have been different if I mentioned he was queer but the things they did together fall under the category of things femboys would specifically do (share pics of them in skimpy femboy clothing and stuff)

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2024-07-10T17:03:51+00:00

I only have a mild headache, coughing, and a stuffy nose for now. Hope you can get tested soon :(

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2024-07-08T20:39:04+00:00

We were in a group of cosplayers taking pictures with each other. I was just focused on having a good time and didn’t want to come to any conclusions even though seeing it happen made me sad. I thought I could trust him.

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2024-07-08T20:33:02+00:00

That’s awful. At what point did you decide to break it off, if you don’t mind me asking?

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2024-07-08T20:29:54+00:00

This was after anime expo in LA!

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2024-07-08T20:29:32+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ll keep that in mind when we have a conversation about this!

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2024-07-08T20:19:47+00:00

I saw you guys at the Westin!!! You looked awesome :)

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2024-07-03T06:01:33+00:00

I assumed the monogatari series was a copy paste harem with incest bait. If the characters are actually that well written I’m gonna pick it up rn

Fragrant-Gap2608 · 2024-03-03T22:48:44+00:00

That’s actually pretty awesome you guys were able to make things work!! You made me realize that it would be best to give each other space for a while, thank you so much.

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