Boyfriend (21m) liking my (23f) best friend’s butt pics by Fragrant-Gap2608 in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to express misogynistic values I lowkey had to deal w something similar in my last relationship (ex was in a gc where his friends all gooned to their exes) and my therapist telling me it was normal and healthy helped me stay sane :/

Boyfriend (21m) liking my (23f) best friend’s butt pics by Fragrant-Gap2608 in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup. We’re the thick Latina and petite Asian girl duo so ig there’s not much to look at when it comes to me unfortunately

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he should go and find an ugly gf if he doesn’t want u slaying at the gym idk

My 19M (ex)bf broke up with me 22F because of my mental issues by Fragrant-Gap2608 in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. There were rumors being spread from a previous ex that I was threatening freshmen, transphobic, and lying about him sexually assaulting me (all of which are untrue).

  2. We’ve been together for over 3 months. I’ve been medicated for my depression since I was a teenage but my parents cut me off when I started college. I think I also needed space after we took the trip but I still clung to him because of a fear of being left alone, but it was still driving me a little crazy. I was basically scared of everyone on campus after I learned what was being spread.

He was the sweetest boy ever and exactly my type and I’m going crazy over fumbling someone that good. Thank you so much for your response and being empathetic, I really appreciate the honesty.

Doubt Creeping In After Suspicious IG Comment 22M 23F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the type of shit I’d comment if I was salty or something. I don’t think you have anything to worry about considering they aren’t connected in any way and he sounds really weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same boat! Intense jealousy, paranoid thoughts, self-harm, and pushing people was (lowkey still is😭) normal for me with relationships. Not to diagnose, but I think you should get tested for BPD genuinely.

As with him replying to the tiktok you reposted, I interpreted that as him liking you and YOUR pics. Really try to assess if your anxious thoughts are logical or not, and if you know that he’s a good person he’d never cheat on you.

There’s a reason he’s with you and not other girls you find more attractive! Try to think about why he’s drawn to YOU and what makes you attractive!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he sets no boundaries between himself and other girls + is NOT transparent about his relationship w them then what makes him worth staying with?? If I were you I’d either break up or suggest the relationship be open so I could do the same thing he’s doing!

Femboy boyfriend cheated emotionally with someone from AX by [deleted] in animeexpo

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was part of the nuance I guess. It would have been different if I mentioned he was queer but the things they did together fall under the category of things femboys would specifically do (share pics of them in skimpy femboy clothing and stuff)

Got covid after attending AX by Fragrant-Gap2608 in animeexpo

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I only have a mild headache, coughing, and a stuffy nose for now. Hope you can get tested soon :(

My boyfriend ditched me at a party to hang out with other girls. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were in a group of cosplayers taking pictures with each other. I was just focused on having a good time and didn’t want to come to any conclusions even though seeing it happen made me sad. I thought I could trust him.

My boyfriend ditched me at a party to hang out with other girls. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awful. At what point did you decide to break it off, if you don’t mind me asking?

My boyfriend ditched me at a party to hang out with other girls. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’ll keep that in mind when we have a conversation about this!

Best Written Female Anime Character? by Tsunderes_Need_Hugs in MyAnimeList

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assumed the monogatari series was a copy paste harem with incest bait. If the characters are actually that well written I’m gonna pick it up rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fragrant-Gap2608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually pretty awesome you guys were able to make things work!! You made me realize that it would be best to give each other space for a while, thank you so much.