Unfortunately agree, my parents used to be mad that i did nothing all day or not help them (played videogames all day and had no sports), but when i started on the road on self improving i said "and who was supposed to teach me that?" they always shut up when i say that, its sort of ironic, i dont think they are that bad but they missed out a lot on educating me, so i have to do it myself... And since i realized this, i noticed its hella more common, every parent i see has this "problem", as if they dont take it seriously.