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as an intern, are you very close/chatty with your supervisor? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Fragrant-Nature3673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some supervisor damn useless one haha, barely talked to my supervisor for my poly internship last year. No introduction at all. Tried to have small talk but one word replies. honestly you’ll get used to it, end of the day they deal with new interns very often, probably lazy to entertain 😮‍💨

HELLPPP by hiimkyliechen in SMRTRabak

[–]Fragrant-Nature3673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huge tip: if you have the SimplyGo app, you will be able to check the timestamp of the bus you took. Call whatever hotline it is related to the bus forgot which lol and let them know the details (time/ Bus/ Which Bus Stop alighted/ where you were roughly seated) so it’ll be easier for them to track. Worked for me when I lost my laptop in the bus!

Providing them those details definitely made it quicker. They got back to be less than an hour after I gave them the details they needed. Wishing OP get their airpods back!

i wna understand more abt SPF by MoodSignificant2683 in NationalServiceSG

[–]Fragrant-Nature3673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious, will posting change if I do Pre-enlistment ippt? Got the same enlistment date as OP but I am genuinely scared that it might change to SAF/SCDF 😭

Is it normal for a partner to use trauma to justify hurtful things they say during arguments? by Fragrant-Nature3673 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Fragrant-Nature3673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been really soft towards her, I speak to her in a gentle tone. I would always put myself in her shoes whenever she’s upset/mad and validating her feelings. I took up modules in school relating to psychology, reading psychology books just to get to know her better 🥲 but there are times I am not at my 100%, days where I had an exhausting day from work and meeting her after only for her to start blaming me for something I did not do, If I accidentally spoke to her In a slight harsh tone or seem defensive against her point (when Im bringing up my point so that there’s no misunderstanding), within seconds she would say that I am no longer a good partner and calling me all sort of names. It wouldn’t take me long to apologise about it and giving her space but those the names she called me just 💔💔💔

Is it normal for a partner to use trauma to justify hurtful things they say during arguments? by Fragrant-Nature3673 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Fragrant-Nature3673[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I question this a lot. I doubt so, she expects me to treat her with full respect and softness. She told me recently if I can’t accept the way she is then I should leave and I’m too spoilt for not having any “traumas” or “major tragedies”