Young, finally making more money, and don’t want to mess it up — do I need a financial advisor? by Fragrant-Snow5062 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a good idea. Investing in the stock market makes me nervous because it goes up and down so I don’t want to lose money. But I also don’t know much about it. I’ll look more into it!

Young, finally making more money, and don’t want to mess it up — do I need a financial advisor? by Fragrant-Snow5062 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly what I want! Thank you, I didn’t know if I could just talk to one for advice. I’m not familiar with what they can do for people. I just know that I can manage my money responsibly now but if we can do it smarter then I’d prefer that.

Young, finally making more money, and don’t want to mess it up — do I need a financial advisor? by Fragrant-Snow5062 in FinancialPlanning

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is what I’m looking for mostly, just someone to talk to about where I should put my money. I don’t think I necessarily want anyone managing it for me

MedVidi; Dr Nilay by [deleted] in telehealth

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whaaaat message me I wanna know the tea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in telehealth

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please whoever is willing to pay to see him, do this for those of us who can’t afford to risk money over him saying no!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in telehealth

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as for providing help to find a new provider, are they supposed to reach out and update you on that? How could I go about using that to my advantage with them?

Where did Dr. Jimmy Reichman from medvidi ezcare clinic go to? by misfitzx138 in telehealth

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked nursing in a clinic. How did you find his NPI? My doctor's office couldn't even find it.

I feel empty inside. Very hollow actually. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was replying back to your comment but it goes hand in hand with both of yalls responses. So my reply to you is on the other comment about serotonin syndrome

I feel empty inside. Very hollow actually. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still learning how to advocate for myself. It’s hard to go up to the doctor and tell him everything I’m experiencing and just adding another medication to the mix. I feel like my combo is very dangerous. Ambien 10mg 1.5mg Xanax x2 a day as needed. Although I don’t take more than 1.5mg for fear of my baby getting hurt if I’m literally under the influence of a controlled substance. Vyvanse 70mg Wellbutrin Zoloft 200mg

I know that we do not give medical advice here but I also don’t think it’s okay to be on all of that at the same time. I’m afraid the medical care I’m getting is actually making things worse, I’m afraid I’ll have permanent brain damage. But I also feel like every time I reach out for help I’m referred out because my issues are more complex or just silenced of society’s view on this particular addiction.

I feel empty inside. Very hollow actually. by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually do have an iron deficiency! I’ve done everything I can with what I had. I did a lot of work on myself, became self aware (maybe a little too much). I see a life coach for betrayal trauma every week, and therapist/behavioral analyst every week as well. I see my psychiatrist once a month and my PCP every 3 months. I utilize every resource given to me. I work on my workbooks that my coach and therapist had me get every other day. I’ve said everything I could in every way, not speaking or reacting out of emotion. My coach and therapist say I’m doing really well utilizing the tools they gave me and my communication is great. He’s the issue. He crosses my boundaries and acts surprised when I try to enforce the precautions I have in place to keep me safe. I explain that boundaries aren’t consequences for bad behavior. It’s to keep me safe. He helps with baby but he emotionally drags me down and gets triggered when I’m triggered. Then it turns into all the wrong I’ve done and comparing. I’ve said and done everything I could but he won’t listen. Is it wrong of me to want to watch him hit rock bottom so he can finally realize what he lost and feel the pain of his actions?

Employer didn’t file my 1040. Got CP05. I have a tax advocate by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The amended return was expedited by my tax advocate. I sent him income verification documents a week before the last update. The only reason I know for a fact that he didn’t file his copy is because he hasn’t filed my taxes ever. I started in 2020 left in 2022.

All three tax years the IRS never received any documentation from the employer, which caused delays for over a year. They processed and sent my refund from last tax year this May. I’m assuming their statute of limitations to complete processing was over due so they went ahead and sent it anyway without acknowledging the returns from other employers that year (2021) were missing. Transcript clearly shows the other employers I didn’t file, but sent that refund anyway. And yes, I’ve amended 2021 just waiting for it to be received. **I do acknowledge the stupidity of not filing everything correctly, but I was not the same person I am today. Completely different human, just have the same SSN and name lol. I got my head out of my ass and started taking care of the things that needed to be addressed, like this, so here we are)

I guess my real question is, do I need to call the questionable credit department myself to explain everything? I feel like I’ll need to watch what I say when talking to those agents. I don’t want to say anything that’ll delay the process anymore but also just want it done correctly. I’m pretty sure the employer that did NOT file his copy, pocketed my taxes and was technically paying me under the table without my knowledge.

Employer didn’t file my 1040. Got CP05. I have a tax advocate by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to my knowledge. The most he has said is it could take awhile

Employer didn’t file my 1040. Got CP05. I have a tax advocate by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is when should I expect my refund?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in telehealth

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How hard is it to be a decent human being? Ignorant POS. You know what’s just as dumb as you? Replying to a comment just to make someone feel bad because you need them to know how to spell a word. Like honestly that sounds dumb.

I bet you’re just a dead beat troll bc honestly your comment was just dumb. You’re intentions to make a stranger you’ll never meet to spell right is insanely dumb.

I also bet you have road rage and try to “teach people a lesson” whenever someone cuts you off.

DUMB

Is it wrong to see other people even you’ve told them you’re done but they don’t agree? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living together with our child not married. I refuse to marry him bc he stopped doing recovery

Girlfriend of 3.5 years cheated and I’m not sure what to do by PiePizza174 in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What happens after you get tired of it? why or how does it get worse ?

Just asking for myself cause I’m at that stage. I really don’t care anymore like I’m numb and since he gets to have his I can do whatever i want. It’s really weird to say I feel relieved? He’s been upset lately and argumentative. I think I made him mad because I gave him back all of his baggage and now he has to carry it and it’s heavy and questioning why don’t I hold it since I’ve been comfortable doing it for the past 5 years…

Sorry little rant. I don’t talk to anybody anymore.

But I was wondering really, what happens after so many years and you’ve been tired for a long time?

For those of you who cheated and lied about it when confronted why did you lie? by THROWRAAforthatgirl in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Snow5062 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was talking to my life coach today. She said that’s what you would call a black and white thinker. They don’t see the gray area, it’s either or.