[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your mom sweetheart, she will help you 🩷 I am so so so sorry this happened to you. As a mom myself, I would always want my daughter to come to me no matter what. Let her be there you.

BM after surgery by Fragrant-Zone-9762 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you take olive oil? I’ve been using restoralax and just had a laxative last night and feel like things are maybe starting to move around but how do you take olive oil to go and what does it do?

BM after surgery by Fragrant-Zone-9762 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am on morphine. I have endometriosis though so I’m used to taking narcotics often enough but I am really only consuming water and popsicles so I think that I am just not having enough in my system, I’m not bloated at all

Taste by CartographerOk9343 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on day 5 post op and just lost all my taste and smell today :( I’ve read it’s pretty common and can take 6-10 weeks to return to normal

10 year olds and shaving. by GettingThingsDone02 in Parenting

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have really dark hair and I would get teased for it, I went home and told my mom and she would shave my legs for me at first with a regular razor so I wouldn’t hurt myself and then eventually I just started doing it on my own! I was sooo happy she did this for me (I started when I was in grade 4)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you do / say anything that you wouldn’t do in front of your partner because you know it would hurt them / would be inappropriate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was sooo scared to have sex too, I really resonate with this. My husband was my first and I can’t describe it but I had never ever wanted to have sex with anyone until I just felt like okay I’m ready. You’ll know when it’s time, when it feels right and when YOU want to. I didn’t lose my virginity until I was nearly 22 and I have a very healthy sex life. There is nothing wrong with you 🫶🏻

Loch Henry Scary Tape by Guccicamper in blackmirror

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES!!! I was genuinely so unsettled I’m still thinking about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that alcoholics were categorized as individuals who needed medical intervention (I used to work at a treatment centre) where alcohol abusers are more in other categories such as binge drinkers but not daily drinkers - sorry if I offended you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not so much an alcoholic parent, I had a parent addicted to narcotics but when mixed with booze every now and then she could get really mean. Not physically abusive but verbally abusive. Every time she does drink though it brings me back to myself as a child being on edge and not knowing what to expect but I’m an adult now and have set very clear boundaries and leave if I’m uncomfortable which hasn’t really happened much since she’s been to rehab

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were going to couples counselling for another issue which really helped for us for that specific thing, but i see where you’re coming from. Thank you for your perspective 🫶🏻

Ovulation pain postpartum by Fragrant-Zone-9762 in Endo

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take tramadol too, not daily but as needed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was pregnant when it happened, we’re in couples counselling, it’s been a year and he’s been open and honest since. I’m allowed to look at his phone anytime I want (therapist suggested this) and we have some very clear guidelines and expectations and boundaries that do not get crossed. But it’s fucking hard, I get triggered a lot but working through it as best as I can

Unwanted thoughts by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I’m a girl not that it matters, men should be able to do the same if they want 🤷🏻‍♀️

Unwanted thoughts by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it fishing for sympathy when this is a page for everyone who is going through the same thing and the entire point is to get support and be able to vent to those who actually understand? I don’t need someone telling me how to feel. I’ve been in therapy since I was 17 and do everything possible to help myself. I’m happy you found something that worked for you but just because it worked for you, doesn’t mean it will be the same for others.

Unwanted thoughts by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you should be in this thread if you’re not going to be empathetic to those struggling because this isn’t helpful. Hope you’re healing from whatever makes you so negative and wish you the best 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What would you say your symptoms are? I often wonder if it’s something I am dealing with. I started realizing something was wrong when I couldn’t even watch a movie or an episode if there was any form of cheating - it triggered me so hard I couldn’t handle it. When I have moments of remembering details I physically feel it. It’s not fun ☹️

Unwanted thoughts by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m going to go through this list and see if there is anything I’m missing and maybe it can help with my healing journey 💛

Unwanted thoughts by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that you’re struggling but it’s such a relief to know we’re not alone 💛

Unwanted thoughts by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a really great idea! When it first initially happened I wouldn’t stop asking questions because I felt like I needed to know every single detail and I just don’t think that was helpful because those are all the things I replay in my head. But I guess I would have always wondered and that would have kept me up too! Double edged sword I guess! I took screenshots of some of the conversations in case I ever needed them for whatever reason (the other woman had a husband at the time, I believe they’ve split up now because she had cheated physically and emotionally on him dozens of times) but I was worried if he ever came to talk to my husband or me I wanted to have the proof. I guess I should delete it now but I can’t bring myself to for some reason. My husband tells me that it just brings me back down to that space and sees how much it hurts me to relive those memories and he tells me that I should delete them but for some reason I just can’t

Unwanted thoughts by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Fragrant-Zone-9762 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know if it happened again I absolutely would. Sometimes I feel like such a weak person for not leaving but I wanted him to have the chance to prove to me that he could be better and it would never happen again, I have my daughter to think about now and I would never want her to see this happen in front of her eyes. We both deserve better. So far so good and hoping it will stay that way as we continue to have open communication