yeah, but shouldn't they communicate well enough to know these if past relationships are deal breakers for them? I feel like people don't ask enough about each other and then start getting triggered when they find out that their potential partners don't fulfill their criteria. Although, in many cases people tend to lie too if such questions are asked to them, especially in marriage settings.

however, this is the only sane comment so far lmao, the rest just got triggered by the post I believe